Don't want to go football match

TheNightmare

Im meant to be leaving soon and I don't to go. I think it's the walking like we have to park quite far from the stadium so we don't get stuck in traffic so it's a long walk to and from the car, plus it's cold now. It's probably just how things are in life atm the moment too. I know it's first world problems but it might be something deeper that I dont want to do stuff like this.

Azziman

Hey @TheNightmare, we hear you. It sounds like you were looking forward to this, but are now having second thoughts. What makes you say that you don't want to do things like this? We're here to listen to you

Former Member

Did you go in the end?

I've found myself feeling like that recently. Like, not wanting to do things that i'd usually enjoy or just an overall lack of motivation. It's rubbish

But i'd say to not push yourself too hard right now. IF you're not feeling it , maybe taking a break is what your mind and body needs.

I've been trying to do things that feel like less of a task. I still don't want to do them but forcing myself to and then most of the time i actually enjoy doing whatever it was once i'm there/doing it. Getting that motivation to start off with is hard though.

You're going through a lot and sure you're pushing yourself to find a job and you're worried about your future. I say your mind is probably exhausted, hey.

Its not just first world problems If youre feeling off, you're feeling off and thats valid

TheNightmare

Slinky wrote: »

Did you go in the end?

I've found myself feeling like that recently. Like, not wanting to do things that i'd usually enjoy or just an overall lack of motivation. It's rubbish

But i'd say to not push yourself too hard right now. IF you're not feeling it , maybe taking a break is what your mind and body needs.

I've been trying to do things that feel like less of a task. I still don't want to do them but forcing myself to and then most of the time i actually enjoy doing whatever it was once i'm there/doing it. Getting that motivation to start off with is hard though.

You're going through a lot and sure you're pushing yourself to find a job and you're worried about your future. I say your mind is probably exhausted, hey.

Its not just first world problems If youre feeling off, you're feeling off and thats valid

@Slinky I ended up going yh, it wasnt too bad, a bit boring tbh, long walk to the car and I think it was like £4 for an Oasis but good to get out and see my friend too. Plus it was the first time going since 2021. It might be common not to be motivated now with autumn , it getting cold and darker then for me I'm job searching too. Thanks for the supportive reply anyway bro.

TheNightmare

Azziman wrote: »

Hey @TheNightmare, we hear you. It sounds like you were looking forward to this, but are now having second thoughts. What makes you say that you don't want to do things like this? We're here to listen to you

Hey @Azziman sorry for the late reply. I think I'm not wanting to do things like this due stuff in my personal life like im going through work searching at the moment which is very stressful. Thanks for replying and I appreciate you're here to listen.