creepy guy at school

Former Member

theres a misogynistic asshole who constantly makes sexual comments abt me at school and he's really creepy and makes me feel so so uncomfortable.

i try to avoid him but he's part of my friend group and also he follows me around a lot.

we were talking on the gc and politics got involved and then he snapped at me and i get very very stressed whdn people snap at me like i start shaking so then i bloody apologised to him for being mean eventhough i didnothing wrong but i feel so so guilty and he hasn't seen my apology ajd im so upset bevause
1. he snapped at me
2. i was a rude horribke person
3. i wasnt rude but ive apologised which i shouldn't have done.

idk if im in the righr or not idk if im going crazy. can i privately send someone the screenshots so they can help me?

i know it sounds small and irrelevant but stuff like this stresses me out so so much. i feel so strongly guilty. i feel like an idiot for crying about this lol

AnonymousToe

yana wrote: »

can i privately send someone the screenshots so they can help me?

Of course @yana but i dont know how much help I’ll be

issie

It's completely valid to feel stressed and upset. It sounds like his comments are super inappropriate and it's not okay for him to follow you around. I can imagine this feels really overwhelming too.

You are not in the wrong and you deserve to feel safe and respected at school. Is there anyone that you trust and might feel comfortable talking to about this? It's important to have someone you can talk to about this, and it sounds like you're not getting the support you need right now. Perhaps a trusted teacher?

Former Member

I might talk to a teacher @Issie_11 but i dont wanna sound like im being a drama queen 😭

Azziman

Hey @yana, thank you for sharing your experience on here with us, and I'm sorry to hear that you've been experiencing this. I'd agree with @Issie_11 here - it sounds like this person is making you uncomfortable with their actions and behaviour, and that talking to someone you trust will help you to get support, and perhaps figure out what you want to do next. There's a chance that this person might be doing this to others potentially, so raising the flag on this behaviour isn't being a drama queen by any means. We're here to support you through this