Pms

Rose113

I have noticed that i have 23 pms that I havent opened and im sorry to the people that have sent them. Ive stopped opening pms atm unless they are from individuals or from the mix. Im not in a good headspace for convos that im not prepared for or ones that are like a out of nowhere one so if I wants said that im on here for pms for people or anything like that.

I dont want people to think im being rude and ignoring but I also dont want to snap at you all trying to keep up.

I am really sorry. If something has been sent that is urgent please send it again or poke me. Sorry

anna0012

Hello @River , how are you today? Thank you for your message and explanation. No need to be sorry. We value you as a member and you will read your messages when you are ready. Sending you hugs.

AnonymousToe

Don’t worry @River , I bet a lot of it is the secret Santa convo so no need to worry about that

Rose113

Hi @anna0012 I'm not okay

Maisy

Sorry to hear you aren't okay. Do you want to talk a bit more about why you feel this way?

I think many people understand that when others haven't replied to messages, that there is often a reason for that, and not that the person is being rude or anything. It can definitely be overwhelming to have so many messages, even if they are good ones. Take time for yourself and I'm sure those that have messaged you will understand