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Not that anyone would care soooo 🤷‍♀️

Past UserPast User Posts: 0 Just got here
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  • sputniksputnik Posts: 97 Budding Regular
    edited September 18
    Hi @Past User , I'm sorry you feel so bad ❤️ I'm not sure what to say that might help. What do you think you would say to someone if they were feeling the same things you are right now? If that makes sense? Thinking of you 🤗
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    I know you fought hard as hell

    but let this sink in

    you do not have to fight by yourself

    ~ lyrics from Willow by The Little Unsaid
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 271 The Mix Regular
    edited September 18
    @Past User I'm really sorry to hear that you're feeling this way, and I want you to know that your feelings are valid. It's clear that you're experiencing a lot of pain and self-doubt, and we're here to offer support and understanding.

    It's important to remember that you don't have to go through this alone. You mentioned feeling like people walk out of your life, but there are individuals and professionals who genuinely want to help and provide the support you need. What you can do are seeking professional help, talking to someone you trust, challenging negative thoughts, taking small steps.

    Your well-being is important, and there are people who want to help you navigate through these challenging feelings and experiences. You are worth the effort, and there is a path to a better place.
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  • GemmaGemma Community Manager Posts: 1,095 Wise Owl
    edited September 18
    I'm so sorry to hear you're going through this @Past User. I know you've told us not to convince you that you're not all of those horrible things, but we really don't think that you are. You've said yourself that your whole life, you've been the therapist for all your friends and never once walked out of there lives, staying up practically every night at least keeping one person away from harm. A person that does this can't be stupid, horrible or pathetic, Morgyn. This just shows how much you care for other people, how kind, and empathetic you are, how valuable your support is to others, and how having you around is making a difference. <3
    Past User wrote: »
    No ones every said that they care and they are there for me and actually ment it. If that ever happen then I'll be shocked.
    ^Feeling like nobody sticks around must be such an incredibly isolating feeling. Although some people always come and go, we all need some stability in our lives - someone who will be there for us. Remember, you can always share how you feel with us here <3.
    Past User wrote: »
    Yes I've had days where ive felt like giving up but im still here right? Why can no one ever be grateful for that. All the time I have to fake how I feel, I have to pull myself out of dark places which is draining but I still do it.
    ^You don't have to fake how you feel to us, Morgyn. But this is a good reminder for yourself - you're still here, you've pulled yourself out of those dark places before, and you can do it again. Give yourself some credit for how strong you are for being able to do this.

    We are certainly grateful that you're still around. We are all here for you @Past User (whether you like it or not ;))

    I know you have said that you're done reaching out for support but that you're also having some really difficult feelings around giving up. I recognise it's not always easy to share these feelings and you're doing really well sharing with us here. Do you feel able to reach out to any crisis services when you're having those suicidal thoughts?

    Whenever you're feeling scared or struggling to stay safe, remember there's some great support services a call or text away whenever you need them. I've listed a few below for you:
    * If you need urgent help or have any concerns for your health or safety, the quickest way to get help is to call 999 or go to your nearest A&E. 
    *Crisis Messenger - Our crisis messenger text service provides free, 24/7 crisis support across the UK. If you’re aged 25 or under, you can text THEMIX to 85258.
    * Papyrus - If you are having thoughts of suicide, you can contact HOPELINEUK for confidential support and practical advice. You can call them on 0800 068 4141 or text them on 07786209697.
    * Samaritans are reachable by phone and email 24/7. Whatever you're going through, you can call them any time, from any phone on 116 123.
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  • GemmaGemma Community Manager Posts: 1,095 Wise Owl
    edited September 18
    Hey @Past User, it sounds super tough that you've had experiences of helplines making you feel worse - this shouldn't be the case and I'm really sorry to hear that. You're doing so well by continuing to reach out here. <3

    It's good to hear that you have been in contact with Samaritans. Are you finding them supportive?

    I truly hear how much you're going through. Crying isn't a bad thing - it is really important that we allow ourselves to feel whatever we need to feel.

    I know that every day feels like a fight, but if that's true, then you're winning that fight Morgyn, because you're still here and still reaching out <3. You can always turn to the community to talk about things with us - we are really grateful to have you around.

    Keeping going, Morgyn :)
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  • Laura_tigger82Laura_tigger82 Moderator Posts: 5,267 Part of The Furniture
    edited September 18
    You deserve to feel able to talk openly about everything @Past User, especially when you are struggling so much. You are doing so well to keep putting one foot in front of the other, especially when you are finding this difficult and whilst you are so fed up with everything.

    Would you like to talk to us more about how the past few days have made it pretty clear to you that everyone hates you? We don't hate you and I am sure many other people don't hate you but this doesn't make the last few days any easier for you or less heavy.

    We are here with you if you would like some support. Also, would you like to talk to us more about the things you feel you would miss out on? I agree that there are many things you would miss (and we would all miss you!) but this space is yours and we would like to hear more about the things that are important to you if you would like to share more with us <3
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  • Laura_tigger82Laura_tigger82 Moderator Posts: 5,267 Part of The Furniture
    edited September 18
    Oh @Past User :/ I hope you can find more info or something soon! Dogs, and animals in general, are super precious. Do we get to see a photo of your dog today? Do you know when you might be able to meet this "someone"? <3
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  • AzzimanAzziman Moderator, Community Champion Posts: 2,023 Boards Champion
    edited September 18
    Hey @Past User, you're seen and heard. I'm sorry to hear that you lost your blanket, it sounds like it means a lot to you. And I'm sorry to hear that you've been going through such a rough time, and that you haven't felt supported by the helplines - you deserve to be supported through what you're experiencing.

    Thank you for continuing to come here and share how you feel, you're always welcome to talk about your feelings here :) We love having you here as part of the community, and we're all here to support you. And every day that you've kept going is a step forwards - keep fighting the good fight! <3
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