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Remember that finding where you fit is a journey, and it's okay to take your time. Focus on finding connections that nurture your well-being and make you feel valued. You are unique, and your perspective has value, even if it doesn't always align with the mainstream.
Remember that fitting in, and finding where you fit, are two very different things 'Fitting in' is more like squeezing yourself into a box in order to be accepted into a certain group, whereas 'finding where you fit', as Terry8936 puts it, is about finding out what is right for you and where you feel safe and comfortable, fulfilled etc. That can take a long time but that's OK (and nothing is ever perfect), it's not a destination but more of a process that will happen throughout life. I'm still a long way away from feeling I fit anywhere myself, but sometimes it seems more within reach than other times, which is OK too, as how you feel is in a constant state of flow and sometimes I get a feeling of belonging for a little while, in certain situations.
I hope this makes some kind of sense haha, sorry if it's confusing. Keep at it!
but let this sink in
you do not have to fight by yourself
~ lyrics from Willow by The Little Unsaid
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