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did anyone move out at 16

Maria2008Maria2008 Posts: 135 The Mix Convert
If you have can you share ur experiences coz i really need advice any advice will be listened to at the moment
Amy22

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  • AzzimanAzziman Moderator, Community Champion Posts: 1,707 Extreme Poster
    Hey @Maria2008, I hear you. Moving out at 16 is a big decision to make, would you mind explaining a little more about why you're looking to move out?

    The Mix has an article on advice on the topic for reference: https://www.themix.org.uk/sex-and-relationships/family-life/help-moving-out-3292.html
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  • Maria2008Maria2008 Posts: 135 The Mix Convert
    i basiaclly hate my family they are too controlling like to tell me what to do and if i dont do things their ways they get upset also i dont have no privacy
    Amy22
  • Laura_tigger82Laura_tigger82 Moderator Posts: 4,927 The Mix Elder
    You have every right to privacy and not being overly controlled @Maria2008. In fact, it might be worth noting control and coercion are now recognised forms of domestic abuse depending on the context and you deserve to be treated better. Would anything help right now to reduce their control and let you have more privacy at the moment? We are all here with you :)
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  • Maria2008Maria2008 Posts: 135 The Mix Convert
    not really @Laura_tigger82 but thnx for the support
  • libbystrawberrylibbystrawberry Community Champion Posts: 493 Listening Ear
    Maria2008 wrote: »
    not really @Laura_tigger82 but thnx for the support

    Im kinda in the same situation but im only 13 so very long till i can move out my mum is also quite controlling tho she would call it caring and im basically the outcast in ny family but u dont have privacy i have too much privacy ! Like im always lonely and isolated. Idk why im telling u this but yh
    I’m getting tired pretending so well
    Amy22IainJammyboy
  • Maria2008Maria2008 Posts: 135 The Mix Convert
    @libbystrawberry trust me u dont want to be with no privacy coz if shes controlling now imagine without privacy and my moms the same she says its caring going through my stuff going through my dairy she even checks my underweasr before i go to school she will chech everywhere like even in my ass why the fuck did i just tell you that
    Amy22
  • AzzimanAzziman Moderator, Community Champion Posts: 1,707 Extreme Poster
    Hey @libbystrawberry and @Maria2008 - just wanted to drop in and echo what Laura said - you both have deserve to have some privacy and not be controlled, so I can hear the frustration from what both of you have said. Sending hugs <3
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    libbystrawberry
  • libbystrawberrylibbystrawberry Community Champion Posts: 493 Listening Ear
    Maria2008 wrote: »
    @libbystrawberry trust me u dont want to be with no privacy coz if shes controlling now imagine without privacy and my moms the same she says its caring going through my stuff going through my dairy she even checks my underweasr before i go to school she will chech everywhere like even in my ass why the fuck did i just tell you that

    The first part is sad but the last sentence just made me burst out laughing.Lol sorry u have to go through that <3 bruh my mum literally ripped my diary and then took a whole 10 months of it lol again im sorry u have to go through that
    I’m getting tired pretending so well
    Amy22ebyrne556
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