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a problem i cant solve
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my childhood friends and my family never remember me
I have no brother or sister so my friends were very important
and my father and mother make me feel like I live alone we don't interact with each other at all
I don't know what to do
for 3 years I tried with my friends told them to call from to time to time I even tried to be the one calling but we aren't close anymore they moved on found new groups of friends but I couldn't I don't have any new friends because I cant find any good people
I just want to find someone who will be a close person to me is that possible
I have no brother or sister so my friends were very important
and my father and mother make me feel like I live alone we don't interact with each other at all
I don't know what to do
for 3 years I tried with my friends told them to call from to time to time I even tried to be the one calling but we aren't close anymore they moved on found new groups of friends but I couldn't I don't have any new friends because I cant find any good people
I just want to find someone who will be a close person to me is that possible
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Sending hugs,
Amy22
Hugs!
I think you did the right thing by asking friends to call you and stand up for your own social needs. As the others have said, friends can come and go, but that doesn't lessen your value in any way - you deserve to feel loved and wanted. I'm sure in time, you'll find new friends who will listen to you and laugh with you. Keep putting yourself out there and meet new people, and you'll find those good people soon enough
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your comments made me feel better
because it made me know that there is a possibility to find friends that will last
well to reply to your questions
I am not good at starting conversations and me being a bit shy doesn't help
there are no close clubs in my area
there is a park yeah but I don't know what to do after i enter
and the financial situation is not that good anyway I don't want to bother my family with more money they already pay a lot for my school and food
plus being in a country where everything is expensive doesn't help at all
[sorry if my English is a bit bad its not my main language]
oh and sorry for the late reply i had exams
One way to start is to look for groups or activities that align with your interests, like a club, sports team, volunteer organization, or any other group. These can help you meet new people who share your passions and give you a chance to connect with others. Remember that forming close relationships takes time and effort, but it's worth it. Don't give up hope, keep putting yourself out there, and stay open to new experiences and opportunities.