motivated by stress but too tired

Former Member

It's a month until my exam and I have so much work to do because I don't remember any of the content from the first semester and I'm really stressed about it which usually is a good motivator to get work done but I've just been so exhausted for ages that I can't get myself to study and it just makes me worry more and then I just feel angry at myself and feel really down about it but each day is the same and I'm fed up of the cycle but not sure how else I can change things.

JJLemon18

Hey @saffjxde, I'm really sorry to hear this. I know exactly what you're going through, I've been feeling exactly the same way recently. Do you think speaking with your tutor about all this could help? I've been told your tutor is the best person to reach out to regarding these sorts of situations, they know best how to help. I'm still waiting for the response from my tutor unfortunately.

You could also apply for mitigating circumstances if you haven't already, you could speak to your student wellbeing team and they could provide you with evidence that you need some more time.

You got this, I believe in you! Remember to take care of yourself!

Azziman

Hey @saffjxde, it sounds like you're in a difficult spot during the revision period. I hear you, and I imagine that there are others here who can relate to how you feel. Stress can definitely be a motivator, but in moderation - as with anything, too much can be unhelpful! The good thing is that you still have time on your side - one month is enough time to get back on track and brush up on the content you need to cover

Agreed with JJLemon, speaking to your tutor could be a good idea - you won't be the first student to have difficulties during the revision period, so I'm sure they could provide some support and guidance. There's a useful article on YoungMinds about good exam practice and dealing with exam stress that might be helpful: https://www.youngminds.org.uk/young-person/coping-with-life/exam-stress/#Revisiontips

Former Member

@saffjxde

Sorry to hear you are going through this at the moment. Maybe try to organise set times for things in a revision calendar for this last month, like Monday you will allocate 1hr to this subject, then 1hr to this subject etc so you have a structured plan. It's very easy for stress to turn into feeling overwhelmed and burnout which in turn is detrimental to health and motivation so I guess it's about acknowledging when the stress gets too much. I guess like you said, it's that cycle, and it's about knowing how to break that cycle. Tackle it one step at a time, allow yourself breaks to get fresh air and exercise, drink lots of water, eat healthily and get enough sleep, be good to your mind and body and more energy should come.

Do you have someone that can test you? As I always used to find this really beneficial.

Former Member

@JJLemon18 Sorry to hear you're still waiting but it's great that you were able to reach out
I've had some talks with my tutor throughout the year so I think my school are aware at least. I'm just trying to take it one day at a time at the momenta nd not get too burnt out too quickly.
Good luck with hearing from your tutor

Former Member

@Azziman Thank you for the helpful link... my tutor's been lovely and I have at least managed to share a few things. Hope things are okay with you

Former Member

@RenP Thanks for the advice. I do have a few people I could ask for some quizzing, but I might be leaving that until after I've at least learnt some things. I do probably need more adequate sleep so I reckon I'm starting with that first and attempt things one at a time. Hope you're keeping well

JJLemon18

@saffjxde Thank you! He finally replied and I went to speak with him in person, he was super helpful and nice. I guess it was your good luck

I'm really glad your tutor was also lovely! And yes, taking one step at a time is very important not to get burned out, that and not leaving everything till last minute. Keep it up! Wish you best of luck!

Former Member

@JJLemon18 Aww that's great that he was so helpful. Not too long now until the summer... you've got this... good luck too!

Former Member

@saffjxde
It sounds like you are experiencing a lot of stress and pressure around your upcoming exam. There are some things you can try to help break the cycle. First, try breaking down your studying into smaller, manageable tasks. Set realistic goals for yourself each day, such as reviewing one chapter of material or completing a set of practice questions. Celebrate your progress each time you achieve a goal, even if it's a small one.

Also, make sure to take care of your physical and emotional well-being. Get enough sleep, eat a healthy diet, and try to get some exercise each day. Take breaks throughout the day to rest and recharge. These can improve your ability to concentrate and retain information.

Additionally, consider reaching out to someone for support. This could be a teacher, tutor, friend, or family member. Talking about your worries and concerns can help you gain perspective and develop a plan for moving forward.

Remember, it's normal to feel overwhelmed and stressed during exam season. Be kind to yourself, and focus on taking small steps towards your goals each day. You can do this!

Former Member

Hi @saffjxde sorry to hear that you are having such a stressful time

Exam time can feel overwhelming but there are things you can do to help manage it:

- Make sure to take regular breaks this will help relax you mind
- Make sure you are getting plenty of sleep as this will help with retention
- Take a walk

Hopefully this helps but if the stress does get too much please get some support from family, friends or your teachers for example.

Hang in there, it will be the summer break soon