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ellie2000
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can u say 'love u' to show ur appreciation or how do u say it
Crazy mad insane
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'I love you' changes its meaning depending on context so i understand how it might be difficult to use appropriately. It can be used for family, friends, and lovers to communicate romantic or platonic feelings, but colloquially it can be also used without much meaning attached to it. It depends on both circumstances and the people you're talking to, as well as the environment around you. For example it might be appropriate for me to say that to a friend because they helped me with something and i appreciated that a lot but it might be inappropriate for me to say that in a professional setting with a co-worker even though they might have helped me with the same issue.
Can you tell me a bit more about the situation?
Would you be able to tell me more about the scenario? Has the professional built a relationship with you or are you worried about them forming one with you?
Take care
im scared of how nice ppl r. so far the staff r hunky dory. would nice ppl turn?
today i let out my feelings. i opened the door and told the person 'im gna k*ll u' im not usually like tht. will i hav a tlkn to? im fighting back, is tht usual will ptsd? i couldnt hold it in.
is tht calling out for help?
i used to get bullied/used too much
I'm glad to hear that you had a good weekend. It's nice to see that you've been able to enjoy games and find getting to sleep a bit easier. Nevertheless, I can see that you're going through quite a painful time right now. I'm pleased to see you've been able to reach out.
After experiencing bullying, it can be hard to trust people again. When others act kindly towards you, it's understandable that you might question the sincerity of these niceties if you haven't received this in the past. This can result in a lack of control over our thoughts and behaviour. It seems that some big emotions came through with your response. May I ask whether you are indeed experiencing homicidal thoughts about this person? I understand it can be difficult to talk about such sensitive thoughts, but you've done a great job so far. We are here by your side, to work through this together. Maybe we can talk about what you were feeling in that moment?
May I also ask whether you are able to share how you've been feeling with anyone else? Perhaps this might be something to explore with trusted adults/professionals. You deserve care and support.
Take care,
Eleanor
'wat if i went to stay somewhere else, would ppl know if i didnt tell any1'
'wat if i stayed where it was well lit, coz they took me where it was dark'
'if i didnt go out, would i have not got told off, n had to stay quiet'
I am hearing that you are also placing a lot of the blame on yourself for what happened. This is more a reflection of a difficult situation you have experienced than you as a person though.
Talking to us about this is really brave and you can continue to do so. However, I am wondering, what does the ideal support look like for you at the moment?
I know you are wanting to feel better and "get any1". We are here for you and listening to you if you would like to share more with us