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wat i used to say

ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 4,900 The Mix Elder
bc i suffer frm ptsd, i sed to a carer 'can u r_pe me plz, i sed i would feel better?
does trauma make u want to experience it again
wat do i say if its brought up?
Crazy mad insane

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  • AislingDMAislingDM Posts: 1,666 Extreme Poster
    Thank you for opening up about this @ellie2000 <3

    You're certainly right, after experiencing really painful trauma it is quite common for people to feel 'hypersexual' or like they need to connect through re-enacting the trauma they experienced. So, in your case, it could be that you feel like it's easier to talk to someone in a way that mirrors the way you were treated.

    I think it could be helpful to explore this more and it being brought up could be a good thing because you could try to understand where this is coming from?

    Here is an article that can explain what I am saying better and in more detail:

    https://www.empowordjournalism.com/all-articles/hypersexuality-as-a-valid-trauma-response/

    Do you feel able to talk about it more? xx

    Huge hugs <3
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