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Past UserPast User Posts: 0 Just got here
edited December 2022 in Health & Wellbeing
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  • Emma_Emma_ Community Manager Posts: 601 Incredible Poster
    edited September 18
    Morning @Past User sending super big hugs your way <3

    I'm really glad to hear you're safe and somewhere where people can support you - are you still in hospital now?

    Be kind to yourself today and you know where we are if you want to talk <3
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  • Amy22Amy22 Posts: 4,648 The Mix Elder
    edited September 18
    Past User wrote: »
    @Emma_ yup im still lay in hospital thank you, turns out going onto the helpline telling them you have the urge to self harm means they can't keep it confidential even though you asked 2 minutes before and they say no it stays confidential......it clearly didnt

    I'm sorry to hear that when you used the helpline they didn't keep the information confidential. I guess that can impact trust with the helpline. I guess maybe they did it just to make you were safe I guess. I hear you are currently in hospital. I hope you are okay,

    Sending hugs,

    Amy22 <3
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  • Amy22Amy22 Posts: 4,648 The Mix Elder
    edited September 18
    @Past User I know I can imagine how awful that was to be honest especially if the police turn up at your house.
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  • anna0012anna0012 Staff Posts: 17 Settling in
    edited September 18
    @Past User your feelings are valid.
    Keep us updated with how you're feeling, we're all here for you.

    Sending you big hug.
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  • anna0012anna0012 Staff Posts: 17 Settling in
    I hear you.
    How has the service been? Have you managed to eat something while in a hospital?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Moderator, Staff Posts: 35 Boards Initiate
    edited September 18
    Hi @Past User I'm glad you're safe and I'm hearing that your time in hospital has been OK so far, which is good as that can be an uneasy experience and that's a lot to go through.

    Do you have anyone who knows that you're in hospital and could come to visit you? That could make being in hospital a little better or make the time go a little quicker.

    Please keep letting us know how you are. You're important to us <3
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  • AoifeAoife Community Manager Posts: 3,225 Boards Guru
    edited September 18
    Sending you lots of hugs from here @Past User, you've been really brave to reach out and open up about what happened. It sounds so difficult having emergency services contacted after you've bravely reached out about how you're feeling. I hope it hasn't made you loose trust in reaching out because you really deserve this support <3

    I'm wondering if you reached out to any other services that evening? With our helpline, they will always tell you when they are passing your details onto emergency services and they wouldn't contact them if you're having urges to self-harm. They'll offer you a space to talk through those urges and do their best to support you.

    We have a bit more info on when emergency services may be contacted over on our website - https://www.themix.org.uk/about-us/confidentiality. Let us know if you have any further questions on this, we have the same confidentiality policy for all of our services here at The Mix.

    Keep us updated with how you're feeling, we're all here for you :)
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    Maybe somethings don't get better, but we do. We get stronger. We learn to live with our situations as messy and ugly as they are. We fix what we can and we adapt to what we can't. Maybe some of us will never fully be okay, but at least we're here. We're still trying. We're doing the best we can. That's worth celebrating too ❤
  • ChrisMChrisM Moderator, Staff Posts: 43 Boards Initiate
    edited September 18
    Hi @Past User, trust is so important when reaching out for help and I am sorry that you feel helplines have not been useful. It is good to know that your online friends can be there for you virtually while you are in hospital. We all deserve the best support so, while it can be difficult, we should never be afraid to ask.
    Take care of yourself.
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  • Laura_tigger82Laura_tigger82 Moderator Posts: 5,267 Part of The Furniture
    edited September 18
    @Past User How are you currently feeling? We are all here for you and listening to you if you would like to share more with us <3
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  • ebyrne556ebyrne556 Moderator Posts: 1,056 Wise Owl
    Hi Morgan Good to hear your feeling ok this morning of course as always you know were we r
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  • Laura_tigger82Laura_tigger82 Moderator Posts: 5,267 Part of The Furniture
    edited September 18
    Yay, super glad to hear you are feeling alright at the moment @Past User :)
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  • Laura_tigger82Laura_tigger82 Moderator Posts: 5,267 Part of The Furniture
    edited September 18
    Am I right in thinking this means you are getting your hamsters early @Past User? I'm sooo excited for you too! Do you have any names for them yet? :)
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  • ebyrne556ebyrne556 Moderator Posts: 1,056 Wise Owl
    edited September 18
    Past User wrote: »
    @Laura_tigger82 im getting my hamsters today, im sooooo excited
    aww Morgan thats so exciting do you have any ideas of names for them yet
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  • Laura_tigger82Laura_tigger82 Moderator Posts: 5,267 Part of The Furniture
    We asked the same question @ebyrne556 - "great minds think alike" :p
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  • ebyrne556ebyrne556 Moderator Posts: 1,056 Wise Owl
    aw great names cant wait to here all their adventures
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  • Laura_tigger82Laura_tigger82 Moderator Posts: 5,267 Part of The Furniture
    edited September 18
    That's even more wonderful @Past User. Will you share photos of Leo and Harvey with the community? (pretty please, with a cherry on top! - though only if you want to) :3
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  • Laura_tigger82Laura_tigger82 Moderator Posts: 5,267 Part of The Furniture
    edited September 18
    Aww, they sound camera-shy @Past User. Hopefully, you can build up their confidence and love for the camera :p
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  • ebyrne556ebyrne556 Moderator Posts: 1,056 Wise Owl
    Yayy cant wait to see pics of themmmm
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  • Laura_tigger82Laura_tigger82 Moderator Posts: 5,267 Part of The Furniture
    edited September 18
    Yay, you managed to persuade your mum with a trip to the store @Past User :)
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  • Laura_tigger82Laura_tigger82 Moderator Posts: 5,267 Part of The Furniture
    edited September 18
    Wonderful stuff @Past User. Looking forward to when you have Leo and Harvey :)
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  • ebyrne556ebyrne556 Moderator Posts: 1,056 Wise Owl
    aww they r lovely
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  • Laura_tigger82Laura_tigger82 Moderator Posts: 5,267 Part of The Furniture
    edited September 18
    Looking forward to Leo and Harvey's thread! It'll be one of the best @Past User <3
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  • ebyrne556ebyrne556 Moderator Posts: 1,056 Wise Owl
    Agreed it will b the fav i can just feel it haha
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  • Amy22Amy22 Posts: 4,648 The Mix Elder
    edited September 18
    Past User wrote: »
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    @ebyrne556 here's one

    Aww they're so cute!! I love them so much :heart::mrgreen:
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  • sinead276sinead276 Posts: 1,541 Extreme Poster
    Leo and Harvey are such good names - I can't wait to see more pictures of them soon :blush:
  • Amy22Amy22 Posts: 4,648 The Mix Elder
    edited September 18
    Past User wrote: »
    :mrgreen::mrgreen::mrgreen::mrgreen::mrgreen::mrgreen::mrgreen::mrgreen::mrgreen::mrgreen::mrgreen::mrgreen: woah I love that emoji :sweat_smile:

    Ikr right its the coolest one that The Mix has got on here. Here's another one of my favourites :bleep_bloop:
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