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Would it be easier if I left the mix

Past UserPast User Posts: 0 Just got here
edited November 2022 in Health & Wellbeing
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  • Amy22Amy22 Posts: 4,945 The Mix Elder
    edited September 2024
    Hi @Past User I am sorry to hear that you are feeling this way. You are definitely not a burden on here. You are a great person to be around. If you were gone we would all miss you very much. I know how you feel and sometimes reaching out for help can make us feel like a burden eventhough we aren't. Hope you are feeling okay,

    Sending hugs,

    Amy22 ❤️❤️❤️
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  • AislingDMAislingDM Moderator Posts: 1,666 Extreme Poster
    edited September 2024
    Oh @Past User you must be in so much pain right now, I can't imagine feeling like such a burden to those around you :( I know you specifically mentioned the mods and staff, and I wanted to try as best I can to reassure you that this simply is not the case at all, we appreciate you so very much, not least of all for how you support the other members of The Mix, but also because you show such strength and bravery in your honesty. Being so vulnerable to anyone, let alone to people on the internet, can be a humongous challenge that some people can never overcome, yet you are here being so truthful about your anguish.

    Hearing from you, no matter whether negative or positive, is very important to us because it reassures us that you are still here fighting very hard to keep going each day, which is certainly no mean feat. <3

    I'm very open to talking more if you want to explain what has made you feel like such a burden? Is there anything we can do to change our responses to make you feel more reassured that we love having you here? xxx
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  • AislingDMAislingDM Moderator Posts: 1,666 Extreme Poster
    edited September 2024
    No worries at all @Past User <3 I'm just beyond happy that you're coming back to me and replying! Given how much you're struggling with, it's no wonder you cannot easily separate out the 'biggest' cause of your current hopelessness and anguish. Take all the time you need. We're here whenever you're ready xx
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 203 Trailblazer
    edited September 2024
    @Past User you are NOT a burden <3

    The reason why we all reply to each other's posts with supportive words is because we do care :)
    Noone is pretending, and like aislingDM said, hearing from you is so important and reassuring because then we know you are still here with us.

    Is there anything at all we can do for you?
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  • sinead276sinead276 Posts: 1,796 Extreme Poster
    edited September 2024
    Just wanted to say that like the others have said @Past User, you are not a burden at all.

    Everyone on here cares and we all want to do our bit to help each other when we are struggling, in whatever way we can.

    At the same time, if you feel that some time away would benefit you then do it - we will be here waiting to hear from you again if you choose to return. And remember, we are all here for you and we genuinely care

    Sending hugs,
    Sinead
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 287 The Mix Regular
    edited September 2024
    Hi @Past User,

    Just wanted to join everyone else and say that you are definitely not a burden, all of us here at the mix care about you!
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Moderator Posts: 197 Trailblazer
    edited September 2024
    hello @Past User
    I haven't been here for long but I just want to make sure you know that we don't think of you as a burden and all we want here at the mix is to make sure that you feel listened to and to hear you out. We care about what happens to you and about how you feel and we're always happy to try to help you out if we can
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  • JustVJustV Inactive Posts: 5,641 Part of The Furniture
    edited September 2024
    sinead276 wrote: »
    Everyone on here cares and we all want to do our bit to help each other when we are struggling, in whatever way we can.

    At the same time, if you feel that some time away would benefit you then do it - we will be here waiting to hear from you again if you choose to return. And remember, we are all here for you and we genuinely care
    💯

    Just wanted to join the pack here in reassuring you that you're no burden to us @Past User, it's a genuine pleasure having you in the community. :) But as @sinead276 said, it's important to do what's right for you, and no judgement if you need a bit of space.
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  • AislingDMAislingDM Moderator Posts: 1,666 Extreme Poster
    edited September 2024
    Needing time away from here is completely okay @Past User , if this is what you know will help you in the short or long term <3 We will support you no matter what, but whenever you're ready to come back we will be right here, ready to chat again because we love having you here. You are a very brave and kind soul and this type of person will always be more than welcome on The Mix =)
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