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I need some help with my dating life
Former Member
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Do dating apps actually work? I been on a lot of apps and never get any matches. Should I just give up on trying to find any one date? I am 35 years old, don’t really have a lot of friends. I moved away from home for work and don’t know anyone where I live now.
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I would say keep trying and getting out there is a great place to start. Hopefully this helps,
Sending hugs,
Amy22
Also, I just wanted to let you know that The Mix is designed for young people between the ages of 13 and 25 and so there are other websites that would likely have advice and support that is better tailored to you, such as https://www.mentalhealthforum.net/.
I do hope this helps, and thank you for talking to us on here
It depends whether you feel it's affecting you mentally, by not getting matches. When I had dating apps, I found that I was being really superficial, and it was so bad for me mentally because I became someone I was not, so I got rid of all of them and would never get them again. However, I've seen it work for my friends. The apps can be different and more solely catered to certain things, but I would say it is just a case of working for some, and not for others. If it is affecting your self-esteem, then it's not worth it because that can have a knock-on affect.
I would agree with Amy22, finding a club sounds like a good option to meet new people where you live, also meetup.com/ is great to meet others without the added pressure of a dating app.
I hope this helps you, we are always here for support