friend and her boyfriend

Former Member

hey been away for awhile just because of things but anyway my friend has a new bf and he’s just a cunt,the first time i met him i was apparently looking at him for too long and then they both accused me of liking him, like just no. Then the second time I met him he started bringing stuff up from the past that my friend has told him which I don’t even know why like he wasn’t even there at the time. They both talk shit about me she’s just not a nice friend she’s isolated me from people and well talks shit about me and I’ve wanted to leave but I’m literally scared of her and i have no other friends. I just can’t be bothered with her or him anymore like i understand that it’s her bf n that but come on don’t disrespect me just because he doesn’t like me 

Former Member

Hey @ems16 !!

I think you're completely right there! They should not disrespect you regardless of whether you like each other or not! From my own experience, I just pretend to like my mates bf "just to keep the peace" but if they were talking about me and the personal conversations I had with my friend, I'd rethink about that. Maybe before doing something like ending the friendship, bring this up to your friend. She might not understand your perspective 

Former Member

Hi @ems16

I'm so sorry, this sounds so horrible. It sounds like he's a bully and he's turning her into one too. 

BullyingUK offers advice and support to victims of bullying. Maybe you could give them a call on 0808 800 2222 and have a chat, or just have a look at their website.

We also have an article about confronting a friend that might be helpful:
https://www.themix.org.uk/sex-and-relationships/friendship/how-to-confront-a-friend-3318.html

Sending hugs - we're all here to support you.

Azziman

Best thing you can do is get out of there - no friends is far better than bad ones, and it sounds like being linked to her is causing you all sorts of problems. You'll find other people x