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Insulting myself

ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 932 Part of The Mix Family
I tell everyone that I'm a loser, heartbreaking. Help


  • Kathleen07Kathleen07 Posts: 1,935 Extreme Poster
    Hi Ellie, that is heartbreaking <3 I know for a fact you're loved and you seem like a really sweet person. Do you tell people you're a loser because that's how you feel about yourself, or does something else make you do it?
  • ShaunieShaunie I’m alive but I’m ✨dead✨ England 🏠Posts: 10,967 An Original Mixlorian
    Here if wanna talk more about it x
    𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐩 𝐝𝐨𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮, 𝐚𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐠𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐝𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮. 𝐁𝐮𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮. 𝐒𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐮𝐧𝐚𝐩𝐨𝐥𝐨𝐠𝐞𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐤 𝐚𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝. 💕💕
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 932 Part of The Mix Family
    When something hpns which is out of my control, I don't cope for years. Look back at 'authorities' which I posted a while ago under 'law politics' title. Ppl say stuff in a hard voice which I take seriously. I dunno if ppl r joking or not. Which makes me think and I retalliate by text l8r tht day so I don't have to speak face to face with them coz ppl r scary. I hav flashbacks and I don't live in today. Now I survive from a to b, waiting until the time i pop off, which I hope is soon. Sorry. :(. Please reply xxxxx
  • JordanJordan Posts: 212 Super Moderator
    I can understand that you feel you need to retaliate. When we think people are attacking us, it’s only natural to want to defend ourselves. 

    It sounds like you feel that you retaliate too soon to messages so you don’t have to deal with it face-to-face. Do you think there might be anything you could do to avoid this?
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 932 Part of The Mix Family
    Nothing's simple :'(
  • ellie2000ellie2000 Posts: 932 Part of The Mix Family
    Waiting for stuff for everything to stop just eats u up. Meanwhile ppl bring u down Nd they hope u to crash. Which I'm at that crash point n I can't fly back up
  • coc0maccoc0mac Posts: 532 Incredible Poster
    Hi @ellie2000

    It sounds like you're dealing with a lot at the moment. You say you can't fly back up and I just wanted to let you know that I really believe things do get better, and you absolutely fly back soon. There's no pressure to feel better - you can take all the time you need to care for yourself - but you really can do it. And we are all here to help you along the way :heart:
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