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H I'm lois

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 7 Confirmed not a robot
I'm 18 years old and I am a literally horse man I am the shyest person in my year and also I feel like everything goes wrong. I am willing but my self confidence is very low.

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,938 Extreme Poster
    Welcome to the community Lois, great to have you :)

    I'm sorry to hear this. Feel free to tell us more about things when you're ready, we're here to support you <3
  • JustVJustV Inactive Posts: 5,641 Part of The Furniture
    Welcome aboard, Lois. :) Really glad you found us. It's good to see you posting - see you around!
    All behaviour is a need trying to be met.
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  • AzzimanAzziman Moderator, Community Champion Posts: 2,112 Boards Champion
    Welcome!x
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  • SienaSiena Posts: 15,688 Skive's The Limit
    Welcome Lois
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
  • AoifeAoife Community Manager Posts: 3,228 Boards Guru
    Welcome to the boards @Horselove19

    It's really nice to have you here. We're all here to listen and support you <3
    Maybe somethings don't get better, but we do. We get stronger. We learn to live with our situations as messy and ugly as they are. We fix what we can and we adapt to what we can't. Maybe some of us will never fully be okay, but at least we're here. We're still trying. We're doing the best we can. That's worth celebrating too ❤
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 7 Confirmed not a robot
    Hi guys thank you for chatting. I have had a couple of bad times and recently finally after 2 yrs finished college today. I usually get voices in my head and feel like a failure and quite low at times. I am a victim of bullying for more than 5 years and I grow stronger and better through support and my fellow yard staff. 
  • independent_independent_ Community Champion Posts: 9,053 Supreme Poster
    Welcome Lois it’s great to have you here :)      
    “Sometimes the people around you won’t understand your journey. They don’t need to, it’s not for them.”
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