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TW - whose fault was it?! Shame.

NatalieMTNatalieMT Posts: 177 Helping Hand
If your body reacts to something that someone does to you does that mean you enjoyed it?

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    BubblesGoesBooBubblesGoesBoo Posts: 3,590 Community Veteran
    No. You have given much detail but I know the answer is no. Your body reacts yeahh but that's natural, only you can decide if you enjoyed it or not.  <3 
    ' So I put a bullet where I shouda put a helmet, and I crash my car cause I wanna get carried away, that's why I'm standing on the overpass screaming at myself 'hey, I wanna get better''  
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    SienaSiena Posts: 15,565 Skive's The Limit
    You cant control how your body reacts. Like - You can even orgasm while being raped. It is still rape. 
    “And when they look at you, they won't see everything you've been through. They won't see the **** that turned to scars that began to fade with time. They won't see the heartbreaking things that shook up and changed your entire world. They won't know how many tears you cried or even what it was you were crying about. They won't see how strong you had to be because you had no other choice. What they will see though is how compassionate you are because you experienced pain. What they will see is how kind you are because you experienced how cruel the world is. What they will see is how good you are because you've seen how bad things or people can be. The difference between you and your experiences are who you choose to be, despite everything that could have turned you cold and unkind.You are the good the world needs and the best of us.” ~ Kirsten Corley
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    MsBingoMsBingo Posts: 64 Boards Initiate
    I agree with what @BubblesGoesBoo and @Shaunie said. 

    Lots of people laugh when being tickled, even though they might hate it.
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    LabraBellLabraBell Posts: 203 Trailblazer
    Think about the flinch reaction. If someone pretends to punch you in the face, you're going to flinch, even if you don't want to. You could tell yourself "I will NOT flinch!" as many times as you like, but in the end you'll still flinch. Not your fault, it's just what your body does. 

    You can put that into any context, and the answer will still be the same. It's only your "fault" if you wanted it to happen in the first place. Unless you have a reaction that you can think about and say "Yes I enjoyed it" or "I'd quite like to do that again," then you didn't enjoy it. Your choice at the end of the day.
    What do you mean I have to think of an intelligent signature?
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