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TW - whose fault was it?! Shame.

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 177 Helping Hand
in Sex & Relationships
If your body reacts to something that someone does to you does that mean you enjoyed it?

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 3,590 Community Veteran
    No. You have given much detail but I know the answer is no. Your body reacts yeahh but that's natural, only you can decide if you enjoyed it or not.  <3 
  • SienaSiena Inactive Posts: 15,759 Skive's The Limit
    You cant control how your body reacts. Like - You can even orgasm while being raped. It is still rape. 
    ~Probably dead now
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 64 Boards Initiate
    edited September 2024
    I agree with what @Past User and @Shaunie said. 

    Lots of people laugh when being tickled, even though they might hate it.
    Post edited by TheMix on
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 203 Trailblazer
    Think about the flinch reaction. If someone pretends to punch you in the face, you're going to flinch, even if you don't want to. You could tell yourself "I will NOT flinch!" as many times as you like, but in the end you'll still flinch. Not your fault, it's just what your body does. 

    You can put that into any context, and the answer will still be the same. It's only your "fault" if you wanted it to happen in the first place. Unless you have a reaction that you can think about and say "Yes I enjoyed it" or "I'd quite like to do that again," then you didn't enjoy it. Your choice at the end of the day.
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