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Hi, my name is sarah!

sarahsarah Posts: 1 Literally just got here
Hi, it's my first post here.
I am extremely sad and seeking help. I left a note for a guy that I just met twice and asked him for a coffee, but he called and said he is engaged. I feel so embarrassed. I regret it that I did so in the first place, I looked desperate. How to get over this feeling? Did I do wrong to do so before making sure he is single? 
It was my first time asking a guy out but regret it.


  • AzzimanAzziman The Mix convert Posts: 1,087 Wise Owl
    Hi sarah,

    It's okay, you didn't know. Rejection isn't fun, but next time, you'll know to ask someone if they are single first. Learning from a mistake isn't a bad thing!x

    Much love <3
  • ShaunieShaunie Posts: 13,224 Born on Earth, Raised by The Mix
    edited June 2018
    Heya welcome to the boards. Argee with azziman - you regret it but can learn from it. Not much harm done, maybe he was just flattered by it. 
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