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Siena
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(Ive tried my best to stay within the guidelines). I can't even tell if im suicidal. But i was in hospital for 2 nights. And both mornings I woke up, being really agitated and upset it didn't work. Its the worst feeling ever.
But I dont think i want to die? I just really want to die Now but not Forever?. I Just want to wake up to the time - where everyone says everything will be better. I feel like i need a break from life. I cant take it. I'm to sensitive for it. I can't even explain it. I'm just so overwhelmed with different emotions and tired. Like phsycially It's to much to handle. I just keep crying. Im pathetic.
It's frustrating because it's just in my head but it feels so phsyical. Like how can you cry so much just for from pain you cant even see. It doesn't stop and feel so broken.
College is to much stress for me and i know i won't be a student forever but it still stresses me out to the point I dont want to be here.
I dont want to live with myself and live my life anymore. I Feel no point in my existence and a burden to my family and the NHS. And just an extra body that's not need. And no one woukd care if I left. nothing drastic would happen.
I know it's not possible to die just for now but then i think - is it even worth it. Like even if it does get better would going through all this pain be worth it. Then that's when i start thinking I do actually want to die.
And it's pathetic that i feel so sorry for myself. Cause tbh - i do & im literally drowning in self pity. But it's really draining me so much .
I'm sitting here at nearly 3am. And right now I dont want to leave the house again. What even is life. It's to loud and people are sickos. It's a big place and it really scares me so much.
This isn't even life its just torture how is it fair I'm meant to live with so much suffering. And why is it selfish for me to not want to be in pain. Of corse it would come across my mind when it feels like the only peace i will get.
Thanks for reading
But I dont think i want to die? I just really want to die Now but not Forever?. I Just want to wake up to the time - where everyone says everything will be better. I feel like i need a break from life. I cant take it. I'm to sensitive for it. I can't even explain it. I'm just so overwhelmed with different emotions and tired. Like phsycially It's to much to handle. I just keep crying. Im pathetic.
It's frustrating because it's just in my head but it feels so phsyical. Like how can you cry so much just for from pain you cant even see. It doesn't stop and feel so broken.
College is to much stress for me and i know i won't be a student forever but it still stresses me out to the point I dont want to be here.
I dont want to live with myself and live my life anymore. I Feel no point in my existence and a burden to my family and the NHS. And just an extra body that's not need. And no one woukd care if I left. nothing drastic would happen.
I know it's not possible to die just for now but then i think - is it even worth it. Like even if it does get better would going through all this pain be worth it. Then that's when i start thinking I do actually want to die.
And it's pathetic that i feel so sorry for myself. Cause tbh - i do & im literally drowning in self pity. But it's really draining me so much .
I'm sitting here at nearly 3am. And right now I dont want to leave the house again. What even is life. It's to loud and people are sickos. It's a big place and it really scares me so much.
This isn't even life its just torture how is it fair I'm meant to live with so much suffering. And why is it selfish for me to not want to be in pain. Of corse it would come across my mind when it feels like the only peace i will get.
Thanks for reading
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Sounds like you are going through a really hard time at the moment. I understand the way you are feeling completely. I also understand that you are feeling a lot of confusion with all these different thoughts and feelings. We have to try and stay strong for the future and try and think it could get better as we can change it. I also wish I didn't have to be here at this moment in time and could come back when everything have cleared up a bit. We can beat this.
The stress of collage is a lot, with exams coming up it can all get to much but try and take some time for yourself. I will be hard but you can push through it not too much longer to go.
Your not pathetic and you would be missed if you weren't here, you are strong. This will get better even if it looks like it is getting worse.
Stay strong you can do this. How you feeling now?
It sounds like you're going through such a difficult time at the moment. I just wanted to say how brave you are for opening up about everything that you're going through, this is often such a difficult step to take. It's really great you're looking for advice from other's who might be able to relate to what you're going through. Life can be so difficult sometimes and can often feel like things won't ever get better, but like Aidan said holding onto that hope, even if it's small, can help keep you going. You're not alone at all we're all here for you whenever you need to talk things through.
You mentioned that college is stressful at the moment, like Charlotte mentioned taking time for yourself can often help when things are getting too much. Sometimes doing more of what we love can help through these stressful and difficult times. Is there something you really enjoy doing that you'd like to do more of?
If you ever feel like things are getting too much or overwhelming, Samaritans or Papyrus are there to talk through anything you're going through and offer you advice and support.
How are you feeling today?
But i really need help right now. Ive been really sick from what I did and im really scared. I dont know what to do. It's only hitting me how much damage I'm doing. But I've been really sick and dont know if that's helps it be less damaging. ?:(
Glad to hear that you're feeling that tiny bit better! Have you tried getting advice from any of the places Aife has hyperlinked you?
Just remember that it is never too late to start afresh! The fact that you are acknowledging that you have done some damage is a good step in overcoming it! You're doing really well and remember you have all of us here at the mix to help support you!
Drea
They use phone calls and i wouldn't ring.
And forgot to put. I can't take time out for myself a way from college. I'm in my second year, and basically have done no work. I have two years of work to do in a few weeks. No one will help me because they don't know how to talk to me. And im to shy for any of this. I'm going to get no where in life. There's no point
I know someone who knows someone who did what i did and after a few hours he got help but it was to late he was dying in the next few days,and there was nothing they could do. And ive basically convinced myself, with the help of Google, I've done a lot of damage and probably passed it. I don't know if im scared or happy. I'm either paranoid or right. But i still feel sick
Your lovely understanding kind words means a lot!:)X
Ive also came to realise seeking help is actually a strength and is the hardest part.
Ive just woke up feeling so ill again:( but im to scared to seek help for this. I ssuppose its good that is something I'm slightly regretting
Yet i know full well if i go hospital throwing up my lungs they wouldn't care about my mental health. I just feel like taking it without the alcohol so they stay in my system and damage me for good.
I can't and don't want to try and carry on anymore
You are strong I would recommend reaching out for helping and going to the doctors or hospital tonight.
You can do this I am here for you.
I dont belong here. I dont belong anywhere, I think that's the problem. I dont know why i am here. Im no use to anyone ane no one cares about me. Or why it's fair. Or why im burdening everyone with my problems. Why I'm in the way so much. Why im so emotionally challenged. Why i cant control my own emotions like any other normal 18 year old. Why am i so messed up, that i carry on abuse to myself. It's just in my head. I should be able to control how i feel. And get over it.
I'm questioning life, why? im still young I should just go along with it. I'm questioning what happens after death, and the reason we are all here if we all die.
I'm trying to justify suicide to myself to make it easier for myself. Like its a natural way to die. I get it can be from an illness but I just feel weak. I feel like I know what needs to be done, i just need peace for everyone to know that they really shouldnt be sad - that I wouldn't feel the pain..Why would they. I Would be happy.
And maybe the natural survival instict that is in every one of us is what is the only reason im stil here. But i dont want to surive anymore.
What is stopping me and why am i still here.
I care about you, you are amaing and the reason you are still her is because you deserve to be. Your not a burden at all.
It dose get better even though it doesn't look like it will. It might take time and it may feel like you don't have time but you can push through this.
Stay strong you can do this
My family could know i self harm and know full well how dangerous it can be. Yet pretend they care but not to much. Services use to ask me every time I went if I harmed myself in the last week. If i answer yes i would have a blood test the same or next day or would be sent to hospital. I now willing admit it. They do nothing. Everyone's just waiting for me to die. So why am I still here. It could kill me in the next few days but because It hasn't before it worth the risk.
Maybe if im not here i wouldnt be so much time and hassle for everyone
I feel like the whole world is against me. And I'm trying to hard. But I don't even know anymore. Everything is scaring me so much. And feel like im feeling, seeing and hearing everything as twice as much as I should. Everything seems be going so fast and all i can do is just watch and go twice as slow. I know how messed up that may sound and make no sense to anyone but it's horrible
Sorry about your family, are you able to talk to them about the way you feel they are acting towards your self harm. Sorry that the hospital don't do anything. Have you tired going to a doctor and talking it through with them?
We don't want you to die and don't want it to kill you at all, your strong and can get through this you just need a bit more support. Your not a hassle for anyone at all.
Sorry you feel the whole world is against you we here are with you and want to keep you safe. I understand, I believe you can get through this and you can get better.
I'm feeling much better now after going for a walk for a bit by myself:)
I'm so angry and i hardly ever feel anger. I don't know what's wrong with me but I fucking hate myself. I just feel like self harming again. Why am such a fucking psycho and unstable. I deserve all of this. I ruin everything and everyone. I feel so so low. I just keep crying. I want to stop crying and this all to end:'(
You don't need to self harm tonight, we can do this and we can get through this will get better, you need someone to push you through and I will do that. Your not a psycho at all or unstable. You just need a bit of extra support.
You haven't ruined anything nothing is your fault try and believe me.
I got help and somehow I woke up in hospital.
Im messed up
I dont know what to do anymore. I don't want to live my life. I can't be bothered anymore.