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first time sex/pregnancy

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Hey i wonder if you could all help me please because im really worrried.

This guy im seeing came round tonight and we got abit frisky- we did all the foreplay (like usual) and then he was indicating he wanted to take it further (i wont go into details!!) so he asked me was i ready (im a virgin) and i said yes.

Hes got a really big dick and also as it was my first time it hurt like hell so he asked did i want 2 wait till anuva time if it was hurting. Anyway we tried different posistions and stuff to try to loosen up but it still recked!

The thing is he had it up me for a bit and im worried that it could have got me pregnant. I know this doesnt really class as sex but could i be pregnant?

He deffo didnt kum inside me cos i finished him off l8a but im worried it could have leaked out Please help im SOO scared! Thanx

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    There's a chance some pre-cum could've leaked out. I take it u didnt use a rubber?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    nope we didnt but it didnt really last long! I said should we but i reckon he must of anticipated it hurting so not seen the point!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Weeeell, I recommend you wait to see if you come on, then if you dont then do a test as there IS a small chance you're pregnant. If you dont want to wait then you could do one sooner, but they work best from about 2 weeks after you had unprotected sex, I think.
    As long as his willy (heehee) entered you unprotected, there's a risk of you being up the duff-it only takes one sperm cell dont forget.
    Remember, if you dont want to get pregnant then don't take stupid risks-its not worth it. The same goes for STI's! bleh.
    Ooooh and as for his dick being big, it would probably have hurt anyway if it was your first time...?
    Good luck:)
    xx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by luckystar69
    nope we didnt but it didnt really last long! I said should we but i reckon he must of anticipated it hurting so not seen the point!

    Even if he didnt cum inside you there is a chance you could get pregnant.
    In that case I would seriously think about getting the morning after pill just to be on the safe side.
    and next time, make sure you have condoms :D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yes, you can get pregnant from him being inside you without cumming. If he leaks precum (almost a dead cert), then it can contain sperm, and therefore you can become pregnant.
    Any doubts, and there are always doubts if no contraception is used, then get the morning after pill.

    Mr_Wobble ;)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    shit, condoms at the ready for me then.:D
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    ClaireBearClaireBear Deactivated Posts: 467 Listening Ear
    Hiya luckystar69,
    It'd be really useful for you to get some information about contraception and STIs, there's loads of stuff here: http://www.thesite.org/info/sex/

    Some articles you might want to look at specifically are :
    http://www.thesite.org/info/sex/contraception/contraception_overview.html
    and under the circumstances:
    http://www.thesite.org/info/sex/contraception/emergency_contraception.html

    Hope some of this helps,
    CB
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Look at those articles, but a quick synopsis of the morning after pill:
    Can be taken up to 72 hours after unprotected sex
    Can be bought from boots or a chemist for £23.99
    Can be got for free from a family planning clinic or your doctor.
    If you are under 16 you cannot buy the morning after pill.
    The longer you leave it the less effective it becomes

    In the future, why not use condoms and the pill, so if you make a mistake with one you have a safety net. You really should be using condoms anyway, in case your partner has an sti. Go along to your family planning clinic (you can take a mate or your boyfriend) and talk to them about what methods feel right to you. :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    im always gonna use rubbers, its scary 2 think tat even though u havent come, u still cud make her pregnant!:eek:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Seven_VII
    im always gonna use rubbers, its scary 2 think tat even though u havent come, u still cud make her pregnant!:eek:

    yeah that is a bit fucked up to think about :eek2:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ah well, thats y we have rubbers!:lol::naughty:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Seven_VII
    ah well, thats y we have rubbers!:lol::naughty:

    Ah but why else do you have rubbers :naughty:

    Cos then you cant catch nowt :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ah u cud still catch a few things, but we wont think about that!:lol:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Seven_VII
    ah u cud still catch a few things, but we wont think about that!:lol:

    nah dont tell me :yuck:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hi everyone i was the person who origanally posted this and ive just come on my period so im not pregnant! Anyhow thank you for the advice and next time im definatly using a rubber!!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    good to hear u aint pregnant, and make sure u use a rubber next time, we dont wanna be hearin bout the same thing 2moro nite! only messin wit ya!:lol:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lets give a big cheer for sex!! :lol:

    hip hip...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Im just wondering why some of you people are having/thinking of having sex but dont know much about contraception or pregnancy. Your fools if you go into it without knowing. I suggest you read up on it before you think of having sex again.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by LacyMay
    Im just wondering why some of you people are having/thinking of having sex but dont know much about contraception or pregnancy. Your fools if you go into it without knowing. I suggest you read up on it before you think of having sex again.

    Like you do eh?:rolleyes:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by lazybstard
    lets give a big cheer for sex!! :lol:

    hip hip...


    Hooray!


    (What... Noone else seemed to be cheering...)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Harmless
    Like you do eh?:rolleyes:

    I aint a virgin, i know how you get pregnant etc etc.

    So that aint actually relevent. Im just saying people should give it some thought instead of rushing into it.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I will cheer then.... hip hip horray for sex :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Harmless
    Like you do eh?:rolleyes:

    judging from some of your older posts, the same applies for you mate :p
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