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first time sex/pregnancy
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Hey i wonder if you could all help me please because im really worrried.
This guy im seeing came round tonight and we got abit frisky- we did all the foreplay (like usual) and then he was indicating he wanted to take it further (i wont go into details!!) so he asked me was i ready (im a virgin) and i said yes.
Hes got a really big dick and also as it was my first time it hurt like hell so he asked did i want 2 wait till anuva time if it was hurting. Anyway we tried different posistions and stuff to try to loosen up but it still recked!
The thing is he had it up me for a bit and im worried that it could have got me pregnant. I know this doesnt really class as sex but could i be pregnant?
He deffo didnt kum inside me cos i finished him off l8a but im worried it could have leaked out Please help im SOO scared! Thanx
This guy im seeing came round tonight and we got abit frisky- we did all the foreplay (like usual) and then he was indicating he wanted to take it further (i wont go into details!!) so he asked me was i ready (im a virgin) and i said yes.
Hes got a really big dick and also as it was my first time it hurt like hell so he asked did i want 2 wait till anuva time if it was hurting. Anyway we tried different posistions and stuff to try to loosen up but it still recked!
The thing is he had it up me for a bit and im worried that it could have got me pregnant. I know this doesnt really class as sex but could i be pregnant?
He deffo didnt kum inside me cos i finished him off l8a but im worried it could have leaked out Please help im SOO scared! Thanx
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As long as his willy (heehee) entered you unprotected, there's a risk of you being up the duff-it only takes one sperm cell dont forget.
Remember, if you dont want to get pregnant then don't take stupid risks-its not worth it. The same goes for STI's! bleh.
Ooooh and as for his dick being big, it would probably have hurt anyway if it was your first time...?
Good luck:)
xx
Even if he didnt cum inside you there is a chance you could get pregnant.
In that case I would seriously think about getting the morning after pill just to be on the safe side.
and next time, make sure you have condoms
Any doubts, and there are always doubts if no contraception is used, then get the morning after pill.
Mr_Wobble
It'd be really useful for you to get some information about contraception and STIs, there's loads of stuff here: http://www.thesite.org/info/sex/
Some articles you might want to look at specifically are :
http://www.thesite.org/info/sex/contraception/contraception_overview.html
and under the circumstances:
http://www.thesite.org/info/sex/contraception/emergency_contraception.html
Hope some of this helps,
CB
Can be taken up to 72 hours after unprotected sex
Can be bought from boots or a chemist for £23.99
Can be got for free from a family planning clinic or your doctor.
If you are under 16 you cannot buy the morning after pill.
The longer you leave it the less effective it becomes
In the future, why not use condoms and the pill, so if you make a mistake with one you have a safety net. You really should be using condoms anyway, in case your partner has an sti. Go along to your family planning clinic (you can take a mate or your boyfriend) and talk to them about what methods feel right to you.
yeah that is a bit fucked up to think about :eek2:
Ah but why else do you have rubbers
Cos then you cant catch nowt
nah dont tell me :yuck:
hip hip...
Like you do eh?:rolleyes:
Hooray!
(What... Noone else seemed to be cheering...)
I aint a virgin, i know how you get pregnant etc etc.
So that aint actually relevent. Im just saying people should give it some thought instead of rushing into it.
judging from some of your older posts, the same applies for you mate