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*sings* iiiii, im so in love with you
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i dont know if you will all have read my post a while back about the guy i like getting with my best friend or not but this is about the same guy.
hes together with her now, but i cant stop how i feel about him. i love him so much, and it really is love. im gutted ive missed my chance and i just dont know what to do. ive been texting him today and last nite and we talk quite a bit on msn. i also see him monday and friday nites at work and we flirt. he told me he still thinks im gorgeous but hes with cazz (my mate) now.
i know i cant do anything about it but i just like him so much, i dont know wat to do
any advice greatly apreciated
hes together with her now, but i cant stop how i feel about him. i love him so much, and it really is love. im gutted ive missed my chance and i just dont know what to do. ive been texting him today and last nite and we talk quite a bit on msn. i also see him monday and friday nites at work and we flirt. he told me he still thinks im gorgeous but hes with cazz (my mate) now.
i know i cant do anything about it but i just like him so much, i dont know wat to do
any advice greatly apreciated
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Get over him, hes with someone else.
Do you want to be the cause of a split?
Just get over him thats all I can say.
So what can you do? He's chosen your mate. I know it's hard but everyone fancies someone that they can't have at some point in their lives. You have to deal with it and move on. I'm sure you'll find someone else who you really fancy and likes you soon enough.
a) leave him alone, feel a bit melodramactic about how you've loved from afar etc. and then meet someone else and know that when you talk to your best mate you don't feel guilty as hell.
b) Pull your best friends bloke, get completely slated for doing it, get ignored by your best mate, and most likely dropped by the bloke as well and end up thinking why the fuck did i bother.
I'd rather take option A and before you slate me, i know where you're coming from on this one but at the end of the day the head rules the heart on this situation.
it seems she just doesnt care about me at all