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I think i wouldnt be wrong if i said that the split was definitely not 50/50... More girls gossip, less men do.
I share the other dudes view... It really is personal... Hearing my gf tell me that she had told all her mates about me was incredibly embarrassing, youve gotta face those people time and time again...
Quite simply we just dont go into detail as men, i imagine it may be a bit more surprising if a woman overheard some people in the background commenting on her fabulous little pussy....
Yeah, Emmsy always doing that to me. I just hate it:rolleyes:
Well unless you asked every person in the world, ill say you never know if its 50/50!
my boyfriend just got a camera phone thing and set it up so a pic of my tits flashed up when i called
He proceeded to show all of his mates my assets :eek2:
Hmm this is getting silly now, as youve got about as much ground as i have in our opinions.
Anyways this is digressing, being moved away from the real point in a rather proffessional way...
we don't go into details... guys know the score, at most they'll ask "have you?" and leave it at that, never "how was it? she suck a good cock? like you to squirt on her face? take it up the arse?......." etc etc.
it's just wrong.
maybe men with no respect talk about those things, but i don't, and none of my mates do.
Well maybe we're just more open
Maybe... But like the dude said what a great lack of respect it is to be openly chatting about private things?
Yeah i do agree.
Buts it like "one of them things" as far as im concerned. I do chat bout that kinda thing with my mates, as long as they werent friends with the bloke in question i suppose.
Maybe some girls just dont have a conscience!
Well anyways I've never had any complaints.
Well thats the whole point here isnt it... How can women take the piss out of men when they have so many imperfections themselves.. And vice versa, although men probabbly do less on average....
if youre a girl What point is having a nice big willy to play with if you dont know what to do with it, and adversely what point is it having a perfectly beautiful woman if youre just gonna have a quick go and leave her unsatisfied..
Sex is a mutual thing, and as mentioned a few times ive had the worst sex of my life with the prettiest girl with perfect features..
Its a combination of the two, a big willy isnt gonna make good sex, neither is a hot bird really, its probably got more to do with personality matching than anything...
You are correct though. No point in having the best tools if the tradesman doesn't know what to do with them.
Yeah porn really has done a number on us eh...
Its like a girlfriend saying
"I don't want to fuck your best friend...I can't stand beards".
So what if he shaved it off then?
"There no point in having a big dick if you don't know what to do with it"
I'd guess that a lot of men have big dicks AND know how to use them. Where does Captain 5 inches stand now?
Hmmm...
Nomatter how good you are there will be several woman who will not only say you were bad but not enjoy the sex either...
Theyre all different i reckon, and the best skill you can have is trying to feel around for what she is after and adjust accordingly...
Some woman dont like being banged blue but others love it
Wierd, no?
Weird no- true yes!
And i'd just like to defend porn- porn is porn! No better argument- you know what it is before you look at/buy it-
I would occasionallt atlk about my sexual encounters with my mates in slight detail-
All women tell each other nearly everything! Even some girls I know tell me what they got up to?
Girls don't realise this though. They assume they are the same as each other, then when D-Baser steps up and uses his usual winning tactics, the pussy isn't playing ball and the girl assumes he is inadequate.
This is where girls should be doing more talking. Stop talking your sex lives over with your mates and start doing so with your partners instead...Oh whats that? You go off a man that doesn't have the confident to take your sex life by the scruff of the neck and make it good, without any pointers towards what you like? Fuck u then!
Have a good weekend one and all i'm out of here!
You cant deny its recent effect on society though... In the last 40 or so years porn has become freely available to anyone, you dont have to go to s hop to get it, you dont even have to have anyone else know about it... When i was 12 years old i was first astonished by the depth of porn available to everyone who knows where to look... I do agree that like doing drugs in a way you know exactly what your opting into when you look at some...
But as shown throughout history humans are weak willed... When presented with something naughty a lot of us will just go ahead on impulse... I think that the growing presence of porn ranging from free pics in your email, to videos bought in a shop, to the infernal "increase the size of your cock" stuff you get everyday, stuff influences us whether we like it or not.
LMAO!!! im horny! leave me alone, i want bf to come home, but hes working, ive not seen him for weeks!
Yeah. If only girls are so "open" to discuss these things with us...
Thankfully ive had good open relationships in my time where if im not liking what shes doing ill say so, and if shes not liking shell do the same...
This is the essence i reckon, its easy to not get what you want if you dont even hint at what it is...
I know your pain man.... My gf lives in leicester and were going away soon so shes seeing people there and im staying in london... 2 weeks so far Similar problem really, just about ready to wander into the bushes and find me a snake :P
i think girls talk in such detail so they can find out what to do in bed if their parnter dnt tend to talk about that much, how do you guys think we learn? we dnt sit around all day watching porn and then improvising from that, we talk about it, find out what to do properly, then you guys complain that weve been talking about it!!
what would you prefere? us to be crap in bed?
but once youve found out what to do there's no need to carry on talking about it.
Basically I think the problem is that men hear woman talking about other men and they are not nice !!!!
My houses mates boyfriend "has a little willy and doesnt last very long" like I want to know that !!!! :mad:
Latley I have been sleeping with someone who does nothing but compliment me and tell others about it too in front of me, thats starting to piss me off too !!!