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how old were u wen u lost ure virginity?

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think thats a pretty good theory kinda thing Emma <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    And yeah i think 17 is average, well according to this big advertising thing in girls magazines...

    I was 16 btw cos I don't think I've ever answered this lol
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i heard on the radio last night , that the average age is 16 in ireland!!was 17 in the 90s and 18 in the 80s!looks like peeps are just gettin down younger these days <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by wHiPCReaMKiSSeS:
    Still haven't lost it.... I'm 14 though at the moment and thinking about it!! I think I'm in love. And I've done everything else with my current boyfriend.... my first time doing anything besides kissing was with him and we both love each other very much! What do u think we should do?? How long should you be with some BABEZ IM 14 15 IN 2WEEKS AND I LOST IT TWO MOTHS AGO NOT TO SOUND STUPID BUT TELL HIM EVERYTHING U FEEL ABOT SEX AND YOUR FIRST TIME AND HOW YOU WANT IT TO BE IF YOU HAVENT ALREDY THAT SHOULD HELP AND THEN YOULL KNO HOW HE FEELS I LOVE MY BOYFRIEND 2BITS WEVE BEEN 2GETHER 6MONTHS HE WAS THE 1st ID EVER GONE PAST KISSING WITH ASWELL IF YOU LOVE AND TRUST HIM AND YOUR HONRY AND HE KNOWS HOW YOU FEEL GO FOR IT OF YOUR NOT SORE HOLD OUT OTL MAKE IT MORE SPECIAL.P.S PREPARING YOUR FIST TIME WITH HIM COULD B FUN!?


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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i dont think you should really,do you want it to be special or a 1 nite stand which can be a mistake?
    Sex is good,Sex is fine,Doggy style or 69,Just4fun or gettin paid,Everyone loves gettin laid!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i was 16 when i first had sex and it was just as I wanted it to be. I was with my boyfriend for 9 months before we did it and we love each other very much. We've had our ups and downs but we're still together now after 2 years. I'll never think of it as a mistake, it's definitely best to wait and be with a caring and considerate lover who you love.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my sister in law is called lisa and she's lovely too <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    anyway, i had just turned 14
    Don't knock masturbation, it's sex with someone I love <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/ukliam2.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by MasterDevilish:
    my sister in law is called lisa and she's lovely too <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    anyway, i had just turned 14


    so u lost it recently? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

    I'll be sitting on top when it all goes wrong again
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    seriously! What is it with all these 14 year olds at it like rabbits?? Many of my friends are still virgins at 18
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    WHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAT!!!!

    im 16, but i *was* 14, and I *had* just turned 14

    sheesh, turtle knew that anyway, he's trying not to be displaced <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;
    Don't knock masturbation, it's sex with someone I love <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/ukliam2.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    how did you get that cool lil jumping man after your signaturte>?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well! I really feel out of place here. I wasn't any of you all ages. I guess it's becuase of the countries. I thought my first was gonna be a little bit normal but not something to really brag about. I was really young. Brace yourself people. I was....................12! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/eek.gif"&gt; I know some folks are gonna hassel me becuase of the age much I greww up much faster than most my age mentally and physically. I hung out with people older than me(good folks not bad <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/cool.gif"&gt; )and I just grew up where I learned about sex at a young age. I mean I am the youngest of 4 children. All boys <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">. And along with that, I was, we were all raised by just our dad, no women. So I was and still is cool with all that sex and nudity <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; but not obsessed with it. So lost it at 12, had a kid at 15 now 18.

    Luv 2 U All from the cool guy <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/cool.gif"&gt;
    I am who I am but the rest is 4u2 find out.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I was 16 (still am) and i lost mine under a tree by the tennis courts in the park (when it had closed!) It was raining gently. It was painful but then great. Im in love with him so thats great! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well! I really feel out of place here. I wasn't any of you all ages. I guess it's becuase of the countries. I thought my first was gonna be a little bit normal but not something to really brag about. I was really young. Brace yourself people. I was....................12! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/eek.gif"&gt; I know some folks are gonna hassel me becuase of the age much I greww up much faster than most my age mentally and physically. I hung out with people older than me(good folks not bad <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/cool.gif"&gt; )and I just grew up where I learned about sex at a young age. I mean I am the youngest of 4 children. All boys <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">. And along with that, I was, we were all raised by just our dad, no women. So I was and still is cool with all that sex and nudity <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; but not obsessed with it. So lost it at 12, had a kid at 15 now 18.

    Luv 2 U All from the cool guy <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/cool.gif"&gt;
    I am who I am but the rest is 4u2 find out.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    You posted that six minutes ago.
    Why don't you close your eyes and re-invent me?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    just cuz u had sex at an early age doesnt mean u grew up mentally quicker than others <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
    Don't knock masturbation, it's sex with someone I love <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/ukliam2.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    OH MY FUCKING GOD.

    why aren't u wearing the "please take the piss out of me" sign? ur a danger to everyone.

    dude, a kid at 15 is not good. for anyone.

    sex at 12. well, what the fuck. i'm a total loss for words.

    a u thikn ur a cool guy? care to explain why??
    I'll be sitting on top when it all goes wrong again
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    When did you lose yours Turtle?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Spade:
    When did you lose yours Turtle?

    i haven't.
    I'll be sitting on top when it all goes wrong again

    [This message has been edited by Turtle (edited 09-07-2001).]
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Spade:
    When did you lose yours Turtle?

    'twas when he ventured out of his shell last... <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;


    Don't knock masturbation, it's sex with someone I love <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/ukliam2.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Turtle

    Well its hardly fair to have a dig at the guy for his past...
    He's hardly done anything to harm you has he?
    Unless your his secret love child... The age would seem about right <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;
    Girls need beauty a lot more than brains because guys can see a lot better than they can think.
    Irish Proverb
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Turtle:
    OH MY FUCKING GOD.

    why aren't u wearing the "please take the piss out of me" sign? ur a danger to everyone.

    dude, a kid at 15 is not good. for anyone.

    sex at 12. well, what the fuck. i'm a total loss for words.

    a u thikn ur a cool guy? care to explain why??


    Im not saying this bloke isnt a bit of an idiot...not that he is either coz we dont know him yet....but people do have children at 15 turtle and no its not ideal but thats life and I was only 3 years older than that and having one wasnt I. Im not picking here I just think u shouldnt really judge just coz he had a child at 15...and had sex at 12, its not exactly nice of u to act so shocked like its somthing to be ashamed of.
    I kind of feel sensitive towards people doing this coz as a young mum I already get looked at and often treated like I should be ashamed of having a child so young, I just think people shouldnt pass judgement b4 they know how good a parent that person is. Just a thought <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    so true lolly
    Love is the answer,but while you're waiting for the answer,sex raises some pretty good questions.Woodey Allen:D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I lost it about 2 months ago. Me and my gf had been going out for about 3 weeks and to be honeset we were lucky we managed to wait that long.
    Anyway, she stayed over my house and we did it and to be perfectly honest I didn`t really think it was that special. She`s alot more experienced than me (she`s 20, I`m 17) but to be honest I`ve had better off my hand.
    Maybe I was doing it wrong, I dunno. Of course I was nervous as hell and that nearly...erm, ruined the occasion but I managed it.
    And that`s the story of how I lost my virginity <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
    "Honesty is just an excuse for lack of imagination."
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    oh i havent lost my virginity yet! i feel kinda left out!
    (goes out and grabs the first bloke off the street!)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Star:
    (goes out and grabs the first bloke off the street!)

    if it's the first to reply, that'll be me then <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;


    I think we should take Iraq and Iran and combine them into one country and call it Irate. All the pissed off people live in one place and get it over with <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/ukliam2.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    dont do it until, ur older coz im 16 and i hav fingered and licked out my girlfriend and she has given me a bjs but i wanna do it but i dont wanna lose my final v plate till i know if she is seriuos bout me so i say wait another year or 2


    is life shit or am i livin in a ses pit
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    17.. almost 18. No regrets.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    scrag02 hw long have you and your girlfreind been goin out?
    Love is the answer,but while you're waiting for the answer,sex raises some pretty good questions.Woodey Allen:D
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I lost mine recently whilst on holiday wit my bf. (June 30th 2 be exact <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">)

    Sum of u will know i had a few probs b4 & woz gonna about a month b4 that but we eventually got it 2gether.

    It woz a lovely experience & even though it hurt a bit @ 1st i'm glad i lost it 2 him & not my ex like i nearly did.

    He'd slept wit one other person b4 me so he knew more about wot he woz doin then me! LOL!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Fab_UKgirlie:
    It woz a lovely experience

    it gets betta <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;


    Playing with fire will ultimately see you burnt <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/ukliam2.gif"&gt;
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