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hiya damn right, welcome to thesite and all that <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
i heard the average age is actually 17, i remember reading it in teenage mags ages ago lol... well i was only 7 months over the average age.. (being 17 and 7 months and not ... oh you know, never mind.)
Burn baby burn!
i think the average age for sex is different in every country. 14 is young...17 sounds better. but knowing that, doesn't mean that when u reach 17, u have to jump into bed just to be among the "average." got that thrown at me and i told them where to go.
as long as u think ur ready...well, be safe too. but i know im not...and no answer to when i will be either. who knows? i probably have done it by next week...LOL not that i even have a b/f to do it with right now either.
children in the front causes accidents...accidents in the back causes children...
The average in the UK according to Durex who compiled the largest ever sex survey is 17. I think I read it being 14 in the US, cant remember other countrys.
"Is sex dirty? Only if its done right."
- Woody Allen
well, tbh, not really. but it doesn't surprise me. one of my friends had something similar done to him. he KNEW she was pregnant, they were gonna sort things out and keep the baby... then she went and had an abortion, telling him a few weeks later.
Experience is a hard teacher because she gives the test first, the lesson afterwards.
Great spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds.
(Albert Einstein)
I was 15, on a beach...
damn sand.
Most ppl say it matters that you should love the person but im not so sure...it'd be nice but not compulsivary..
~*~JiLLiaNNe~*~
If you love something, set it free.
If it comes back it's yours, if it doesn't it never was.
I suppose you're right. It isn't jsut the fact she didn't tell me, it is the fact she completely avoided me. we were supposed to be in love, and the fact that she couldnt tell me really got to me. I know it may have hurt me to know, but I would have liked to know anyway, I wouldn't have tried to stop her from having the abortion, or persuaded her to have it, as long as she would have let me be there for her. But she didn't, she turned her back on me, and that pissed me off.
There's a girl in my mirror
I wonder who she is
Sometimes I think I know her
Sometimes I really wish I did
its absolutely up to you. when you feel ready, then go for it, if thats what you want. it doesnt matter if youve been with a guy 2 days, 2 weeks, 2 months or 2 years, if you feel comfortable with them and you know theyre n ot gonna just dump you or anything afterwards, then its up to you.
Burn baby burn!
it's hard to know what to do. i guess it's a lose - lose situation, whichever approach u take. i'm sorry u were upset by it ((((((whowhere))))) it's just i'm betting she feels even worse. i hope u can forgive her someday.
i think 3 months is quite a while.i was onlywiv my bf 1month,but i was deffo ready,and im glad i did it.
make sure its the same 4 u to!there is no rush!make sure u dnt regret it.
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Sex is evil,
Evil is sin,
Sins are forgiven,
So lets get stuck in!
it was on valentines day
it was the most romantic beautiful thing i've evr experienced-I love my boyfeind to bits and were gonna be together forvea
kath
xxx
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Sex is evil,
Evil is sin,
Sins are forgiven,
So lets get stuck in!
I wouldn't have regretted doing it so young if I'd been in a good relationship like I thought I was.
My advice: be careful, be open, wait as long as you can, and don't ever think you're really in love when you're 14.
omg what an idiot!!!! i cant believe some blokes, whod actually run off like that, and then do that to you. (((((((amadee)))))))
Burn baby burn!
Sex is evil,
Evil is sin,
Sins are forgiven,
So lets get stuck in!
Yeah, amen 2 that, o crap wait a second.....
D'oh!!!
Who's name does God use in vain?
Im waiting for the right moment and try and make it really special.
wow, that is the absolute best example of a guy being a complete fuckwit. amazing...i'm ashamed to be a guy...*goes off to think about girls* <-- see, aren't we sooo crude??? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
sorry to here ur story amadee...i'm sure there'll be loadsa peeps behind u (in spirit) when u go and start slaggin off that wank!
Look into these tired eyes. See something you might recognise.
So after some pretty freaky skating, my friend (mark),pointed out there was a place that had teen night at a club at 8:00 on sat.
So it was just across the street. We all left together, and i wound up talking with this really hot latina.
We got inside and started getting freaky, and both of us had one thing on our minds.
She grabbed my hand took me to one of the bathroom stalls where most people make out.
Only after a while it came up that i was a virgin, she got up zipped off her skirt, pulled me and wrapped herself around me.
One of the greatest fucks ever!
"Children are like washing powders, some are biological, some are non-biological" ~David Badiel~
happy birthday to me!
Blessed Be