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self esteem
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Hi guys, my posting really isn't as frequent as it used to be eh?
any tips on boosting self esteem, i feel really shit about myself especially appearance wise and need to get it sorted instead of wallowing in self pity. Don't want life to pass me by. Also at university, don't want those I like to get sick of me.
Practical suggestions ie books, exercises
Thanks
any tips on boosting self esteem, i feel really shit about myself especially appearance wise and need to get it sorted instead of wallowing in self pity. Don't want life to pass me by. Also at university, don't want those I like to get sick of me.
Practical suggestions ie books, exercises
Thanks
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Get your slap on, wear a short skirt, get your tits out and get pissed. Believe me it works wonders.
I'm going shopping tomorrow. I decided, i'm young, got sizy 8 figure and big boobs and I still feel crap .
SHOPPING tomorrow though. Knee high boots, short skirts, low tops....here i come. :cool:
and the award for useless post of the year goes to....
really, all i ask for is some help and i get this
self esteem involves more than attracting guys
must go before angry feminist side comes out
And the award for the most annoying bitch goes too...
Either take the advice or shut up and ask elsewhere.
but if you uncover the secret, please tell me.
maybe some people dont need to look like a whore to validate ourselves
Could have fooled me :rolleyes:
*though wouldnt be against kittys advice if girls i knew did it:p*
This is not what TheSite.org is all about, please stop it.
To the person who started the thread: look in the Info section in the Health factsheets. We have two articles about self esteem that may be helpful to you.
Coming from someone who sometimes suffers from lse, you should go on a shopping trip with your girlfriends and buy some really nice flattering clothes that make you look and feel good. Not to attract men, but to make you think "I look great!" Then wear these clothes to school and you'll be a sassy student! Do you belong to any clubs? I joined Taekwon-do last year and it honest to God did wonders for my self-esteem, just knowing I could kick the butt of someone who crossed me was brilliant! J/k. Doing a martial art is excellent for gaining confidence, especially when you gain a new belt.
Why don't you go out on the town with your female friends, not to pull, but just to look great and have fun! I do that sometimes with my friends and its brilliant.
And coming from another "angry feminist" you go girl!
lol even that doesnt make me feel better coz ya have to spend an hour looking at yourself in the mirror lol
ie:
im good at:
Maths
Science
English
they dont have to be about school i could be anything ie: good listener but i was just a bit bored and those three came to my head the fastest. you can even go on and do loads more. just makes you feel better about urself in the long run. anyway it works for me but perhaps because im a guy im not so deep and therefore i dont need as much to cheer me up.....
*runs after dog who stole ham leg :mad: *