Need a little assistance

Former Member

Hi, I'm almost 17, and i'm having trouble asking my g/f about something, we've been going out for 6 months, we're still virgins, and i don't mind waiting, so thats not a problem. The problem is that i'd like to try something new, we've already done oral, but i'd like to go a bit farther. I'm sure i'd like it a lot if we tried 69, but i'm just not sure how to bring it up. And i don't know what she will think of it. Thx for any replies

Apollo

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Hi Apollo <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;
Well, I know I've said this a lot recently but just be up front about it. Your g/f is likely to be a bit insecure about sex in general [everyone is] whether you are a virgin or not, so just say as a "my mate and his g/f did this..." sorta thing. If you've never done it b4 [and tell her] then she's much more likely to be comfortable with it, if you treat it as an 'experiment'.

Say it sounds like fun, but if she doesn't like the idea of a 69er [a lot of girls don't] then just keep going with the other stuff! Like I said, the best way to go about it is if it's something you'd like to try together, see if you like it, or if it makes you gag <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/eek.gif"&gt; ! So long as she knows she's not being pressured, then she's more likely to have a go at it and then, more importantly, more likely to enjoy it!

Good luck and have fun <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;

*|* Chica *|*

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My g/f didnt like the idea of me going down on her at first, but then she got more used 2 the idea & after the 1st time she couldn't get enough!

After we started talking about 69, but she was a bit nervous, she said she was embarrassed about the position - she would be shy of where my head would be. One time when she wanted oral though, we didnt hav much time & so she got on top of me on the floor, she liked it like that & it wasn't a far step to 69 (she just had 2 turn around!). U could try that - see if she wants 2 try different oral positions.

Former Member

Hi apollo,

I think the advice of Chica and Chris is excellent.

I hope it works for you.

regards derby.

Former Member

Thx for the help. I think i'll give it a try. Just one more thing, has anyone reading this done that, if so, tell me if it's any more comoftable and if it feels a lot better

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Follow your heart and you can't go wrong

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Thanks Derby <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

Yea Apollo I've tried it, it doesn't feel all that much different, apart from the fact that u can both get 'attention' at once, so it can be more enjoyable overall 4 both of you.

If she's more comfortable with just a blowjob then lickout, (not at the same time) then u should just accept it. It's not really worth pushing unless she wants to as well, you wouldn't be missing out on that much.

*Chris*

Former Member

Hi,

Actually I hate "69".

I love cunnilingus (going down) on my wife, knowing she enjoys it, the taste, her writhing, everything.

But I get really self conscious when her face is around my crotch. I start to get really worried as to whether my cock is clean (did I wash my foreskin this morning! etc), and oh god does my arse smell!!

This really puts me off!!

So apollo remember to have a bath before you go for it!!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;

regards derby

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I'm not keen on 69 either.

If I'm giving, I like to concentrate on that & pay attention to the signs etc etc.

& if I'm receiving I like to immerse myself in the pleasure without having to worry about what I'm doing.

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J9

Former Member

I couldn't agree more j9j9. When me and
my boyf did it, it was a lot less pleasurable for us both becoz you can't concentrate as much! I like to just lie back with his head between my legs and vice versa!
Plus I woz worried tht if i put all my weight on him i might suffucate him!
Just do it invidually, if your already havin oral it ain't that different and i personally don't think it's betta. Hope that helps m8

Former Member

foxyf-can you talk about anything else about your boyfriend, i think you may be obsessed or maybe possested, Halloween is coming up after all!

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BaRt
Live Life On The Edge!

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PS
not trying to insult you or anything!

PPS
to appollo just ask her, all she can say is no! just don't force her, girls hate that!

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BaRt
Live Life On The Edge!

Former Member

Bart, Foxy is bound to refer to her bf when talking about sexual experiences, who do u expect her to refer to? Her Brother?

I don't really understand your point, bart. Do u feel threatened by girls talking about their boyfriends??

Former Member

Thnx Gwai, ure a st*r! Anyway Bart, even if I am "obsessed", as you say, so what?!
Itz nice being in love. In fact itz the best!

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i think that u shoild be able yo ytalk openly to one another owersize wot is the pient <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/eek.gif"&gt;

Former Member

69 is a fun thing every now and then but it's not really a favorite of mine. It's much better to devote your attention to your partner and have him or her return the favor.