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new boyfreind :(
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Hi,
I got a new boyfreind now. He is getting to much for me I love him to bits. He wants to meet me up all the time when I got famliey and frteinds that I go and see in the week. Iam mostley at my famlieys tho.
This what I do....
Friday to monday - iam with my mum
Wednesday, Tuesday, Thursday iam at the shared house
Monday iam at my dads.
I have lods going on. Iam at the job centre every other wednesday. He wants to be with me. I don't know what to say to him I don't want him to think iam pushing him away. He talks to me on bbm and I phone him sometimes too when iam not busy. I don't think iam really ready for a boyfreind. I don't want to let him go.
Someone help me
I got a new boyfreind now. He is getting to much for me I love him to bits. He wants to meet me up all the time when I got famliey and frteinds that I go and see in the week. Iam mostley at my famlieys tho.
This what I do....
Friday to monday - iam with my mum
Wednesday, Tuesday, Thursday iam at the shared house
Monday iam at my dads.
I have lods going on. Iam at the job centre every other wednesday. He wants to be with me. I don't know what to say to him I don't want him to think iam pushing him away. He talks to me on bbm and I phone him sometimes too when iam not busy. I don't think iam really ready for a boyfreind. I don't want to let him go.
Someone help me
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My ex was the same, if i wasnt at work i was at his, and if i wasnt at his he'd be texting me all the time, drove me insane and i actualy made myself ill going to see him all the time
Maybe come up with a regular time in the week you can meet up or something?
Dont feel bad about saying no to him or that you'd rather see friends and family, it doesnt make you a bad person
Thanks for ur replys.
I guess iam not ready for a boyfreind after all . Fuck it cba with it. I'd rother be single then going out with a boyfreind. He is ur right he want to be with me all the time and I told him I need time on my own he dosnt liston to me so I finished with him for good
Its all my fault I don't desive a boyfreind iam just stubid and hate myself I need to die not live my life is fuck
As an overall picture, a partner should make your life better. If that's not the case, then that person probably isn't for you.
I echo this 100%. Heather, you are you. You're an individual and a kind one at that. Break ups are horrible, no one would say otherwise, but once the hurt goes it will be easier to see that there was a reason you broke up, meaning he wasn't The One. The One is out there, try not to feel disheartened, you'll find him and there's no rush. Be you and enjoy being you whilst there isn't the pressures of a relationship.