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i just want to say i am really sorry but really grateful for everything but i need to go
Tonight is the night!!! Goodbye all. Thanks for all the help and support! I really am grateful.... My boy is calling me... Im joining him tonight. Ill be with him tonight and forever. Goodbye. Love you all ♥ xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx :crying: :crying: :crying:
Tonight is the night!!! Goodbye all. Thanks for all the help and support! I really am grateful.... My boy is calling me... Im joining him tonight. Ill be with him tonight and forever. Goodbye. Love you all ♥ xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx :crying: :crying: :crying:
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Do you not think things are likely to improve or are you not interested in things getting better.
Please keep talking xx
i miscarried. Neil would of been a year and 3 months today
Have you had any support over it?
I have miscarried before, I was absolutely gutted. Really horrid. I feel for you.
There are support groups for people who have suffered baby loss.
This is one forum where I believe you could get a great deal of support if you want it
http://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/miscarriage
Would you please give it a little bit more time before deciding what youre going to do?
Nothing can change what has happened, and noone can give you back your beautiful baby, but many people have managed to get through tragedies like this and have a happy and fulfilling life, and of course there may be more children in your future that will make you really happy if you give yourself a chance.
I do understand that its so hard to believe it at the moment though.
Please give yourself at least a few more days x
I wouldn't know what to do to make you feel better, but I know that there are people who want you to stay.
Thanks. I was 13 weeks. I havent had any support because I won't accept it. I just need to be with my baby boy I need to be looking after him.
Getting support does not mean forgetting your son or disrespecting him. You can look after him just as well from where you are. His soul will be just as present for you alive as it would dead, he will always be with you.
Is there any way you can commemorate the time you did have together? A special piece of jewellery, or a small tattoo maybe?
*hug* This is a common belief. Looking to get support is the opposite of weakness though - it's a strong thing to do because it's a sign that someone is taking responsibility in their life and are willing to see a future for themselves. That takes courage when you've experienced something as heartbreaking as a miscarriage.
What could you have on your tattoo?
What is your wall made of?
Its not trying to forget him, its accepting that you wont forget him but things will become easier.
Youre already making the first step by talking so honestly and bravely x
no i dont i do have low self esteem and lack of confidence
who told you this, and how can they tell? Most people who miscarry go on to have succesful pregnancies
i have and they all have said the same.
i cant go to hospital if i do they will stop me.
Would you be able to phone the Samaritans? I think it'll help you to talk this over with someone
:yes: Please phone them and tell them how you're feeling, they're very lovely.
I wonder if you've heard of The Miscarriage Association? They have a helpline - perhaps you could give them a call as a first step? You could do it in complete confidence so no one else would need to know. They are completely dedicated to helping people in your position so they will understand what you're going through.
Tel: 01924 200 799
email: info@miscarriageassociation.org.uk
There are some very personal remembrances on their website too, which you might find helpful or even inspirational. Some people have written poems or prose and they also have a Forget-me-not meadow and they arrange Saying goodbye services in cathedrals across Britain. I know that may sound very final, but sometimes it is hard to properly grieve when you have miscarried, and some kind of remembrance like this can help you to properly mark your baby's existence but also enable you to move on, without forgetting.
Just some ideas for you to think about - if none of them feel right for you then that's totally understandable.
Take care *hug*