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is it normal for a girl to get sore?

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
in Sex & Relationships
whilst being fingered/fucked? after a while my girlfriend gets it, im not sure why? is it just lack of her juices, to put it after a while??

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Its not normal, but using lube can help. If you use condoms make sure its a water-based lube.

    Keeping nails short can also be helpful, and start slow and with one finger, and work your way up to where you end...
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    How much of a while are we talking?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sore where? Inside or out? And is it mild discomfort or OH GOD STOP NOW GET OFF ME OH GOD? And how long, like Lexi said?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well its not necessairily extraordinary, because it depends on how long and vigorous the sex has been, which will ultimately affect her soreness
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Miss_Riot wrote: »
    Its not normal, but using lube can help. If you use condoms make sure its a water-based lube.

    Keeping nails short can also be helpful, and start slow and with one finger, and work your way up to where you end...

    see i would say yes it is if it goes on for ages.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi there romansrevenge,

    It seems like you and your girlfriend need to sit down and have a serious chat about this. Perhaps it might just hurt a little from time to time, however it could be worse then this and maybe she needs to go see her GP about it. By letting her know you are a little worried and want to make sure she knows you support her, she will surely be happy to open up and tell you whether if it hurts more than she lets on - or not too much.

    Do have a look at a couple of articles about Painful sex and Bleeding during and after sex.

    Good luck :)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    **Summer-Raindrops** wrote: »
    see i would say yes it is if it goes on for ages.

    Well, theres a difference between feeling a little reddened and being really sore... I would still say stop if its getting sore, tiny little cuts can appear, whcih raises the risk of infections, thrush, and such... If you use a really good lube it shouldn't get to that point, even if you're going for an hour or so...

    You should just keep topping it up as you go.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    no,it is not normal.go to see doctor.
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