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13 but super curious
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hey ok i got a confession im only 13 turning 14 in august and im super curious about sex and the pleasure i want to do it but i know im really young but i still want to do it what should i do?????:eek2:
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Happy Friday :hyper:
It’s completely normal that you’re thinking about having sex and talking about it with your friends..this is just natural part of life for most people.
However, being curious about sex and actually doing it are two very different things
There are ways you can experience pleasure without taking the next step, one of them being masturbation as mentioned by Javakrypt. It’s a really healthy way of exploring your body and helping you feel more comfortable with who you are and certainly nothing to be afraid of.. There is a page on TheSite explaining what the clitoris actually is which might be useful to read before giving it a go! http://www.thesite.org/sexandrelationships/havingsex/performanceproblems/clitorisconfidence
As time goes on and you meet someone you like and want to have sex with then you’ll be in a better position to then think about whether you’re really ready..here are some tips in that area .. http://www.thesite.org/sexandrelationships/sexuality/awareness/amireadyforsex
Once you do decide to have sex then it’s super important to think about how you’re going to protect yourself from Sexually Transmitted Infections and of course, pregnancy..but it’s not really necessary to think about these things until you’re seriously considering it. There’s also a really good page on Brook’s website about the age of consent as you’re not yet 14. It can all be a bit confusing but the Brook have some really clear info on it in case you’re interested.
http://www.brook.org.uk/my-rights/sex-relationships-and-your-rights/having-sex.
If you’ve got any questions then you can always email Brook and they can help you or come back to the boards if you have any more questions or concerns
Take care
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Seriously don't be so eager. Sex is fun but it can wait. rarely special the first and once you do it everything changes.
Think they are a girl Skive, from reading the other posts
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Gilrs can wank. And everybody know wanking makes you blind.
..... *looks down* Nope. Don't think I can!
Yes you can
Naa, mother would flip.
yea umm, f off? not really in the mood for it right now.
Yea whatever, im really not in a fucking mood for this right now. I always thought wanking was with a dick, but if you say not then clearly not, yea?
thank you all for the advice but that was just a phase im over it and carrying on my life like a normal 14 year old so no worries in that department now
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You didn't come back from beyond the grave just to spam (URL wrapped around the emotion tag, I see what you're up to Marie) and be shocked at wanking, did you?
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Encouraging 13 year olds to go out and have sex isn't good advice.....:thumb: