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Sex at uni!
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Yo, im pretty decent with women at college, but when I get to uni I want WOMEN, like loads of them.
How do I go about getting myself loads (not just any) of good looking women?
How do I go about getting myself loads (not just any) of good looking women?
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Sounds dodge tho, dont those guys always try to sell you stuff that doesnt work?
Thats the thing, I'm not just asking about girls in my class, I'm talking about attractive women in general, like if i just see one walking around on campus.
This is disturbing!
Your attitude to women, frankly, sucks. (And for balance I should note I would say the same to a woman talking like this about men.) You may meet women that you hit it off with and want to sleep with. It may happen often. But it shouldn't be your raison d'être or the sole purpose of your social interactions.
Sorry if I sound harsh, I just see a lot of men going around bars looking to see who's up to their standard and then thinking everyone they approach should (a) be flattered, and (b) give them sex. It demeans them as much as it demeans the women they talk to.
if you want to meet women who don't think you are a complete pig then take what piccolo said seriously.
Nothing wrong in looking for a good time. Doesn't mean he gonna treat women badly.
I thoughtthat why people go to Uni - for casual sex, drinking and dossing?
I should have gone.
Or have a gap year in Thailand.
1) I am not "begging" anybody to shag me.
2) You know nothing of my attitude to women.
3) I do not believe that any woman should be "flattered" or "give me sex" because I am talking to them.
I feel that the assumptions made in your post say more about you than they do about me. I simply want to be able to approach a woman that I find attractive and lead that interaction be a mutually enjoyable sexual experience. If you feel that I am demeaning women by wanting to have sex with them, then I feel that you need to get a reality check and deal with modern society where it is completely socially acceptable to have a casual sexual relationship with somebody that you find attractive.
Your post is frankly a little offensive as well as closed minded.
Thanks for your input, very helpful.
I will try not to make those sorts of assumptions, I probably obscured the point I was trying to make which was that if you just relax and try to meet people on their own terms you'll probably hit it off with some lovely women and many of them will be interested in sex, but don't go in with a game plan.
Once you have done your work, had some dinner, chatted with your flatmates, gone to the pub and had a couple it will be kicking out time. The only guys/girls i've gotten down and dirty with have been either on my course or hung around my flat. If you're doing anything that requires much coursework or research, then wave your social life goodbye. Plus, most of the SU socials are frankly like underage nights at your local club - delightfully dull.
Although, she may have come across harshly, Piccolo is right. You need to tone it down BIG style! You will not only be off putting like that, but you'll come across as desperate, and no one wants that.
Make friends with people, have fun, RELAX, and see what happens...
and most of all, if you do become the campus casanova, don't forget the girl's name, and USE PROTECTION.
You may not think any of us know about your attitude to women, but there's definitely an apparent one that comes across from your posts and that's the one that matters as it's the one you impress on the outside world.
Do what you're doing at a college?
Or...you can send me £500 via paypal and I'll tell teach you how to become a sex magnet spliffie-style :thumb:
A guy posted it straight after i started this thread but it got removed.
I'm not sure if these guys are full of shit or it can legitimately work. Don't be a dick about replying to this, just honest opinions please.
It's clearly aimed at Americans, but it tends towards the sort of attitudes you find in books like The Game (Neil Strauss if you want to look it up) which most people find a massive turn off.
Be confident, that's sexy, and just take things as they come. If you go out with the express aim of pulling you'll probably come off as desperate and put people off.
Yep. Just go out to have fun with your mates, not worrying about getting laid all the time. Girls will be able to tell, trust me
Isn't that what you do anyway though?
Not so much of the dossing thank you very much.
What's wrong with having a casual sexual relationship with one woman you find attractive? Why do you want "loads"? I don't know or care how old you are, whether you're 18, 20, 21, 25, or whatever but you come across as an immature teenage boy who has just turned 13. Please. Grow up.
I don't really find the original post offensive... There's nothing wrong with wanting casual sex with multiple partners, if both parties are consenting and honest.
I think the way in which it's written can come off a little immature and it's probably a bit in jest... But whatever man. Good luck dippin' the wick and remember... 'No glove, no love'.