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Do fuck buddy situations ever work out well?
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You have a woman who will have sex with you whenever you want, will amuse you when you're bored, and will do that without you having to give her any commitment at all. If you have something better to do you can just go off and leave her and you know fine well she'll still be there when you get back.
And you wonder why people will take advantage of that? All the benefits of a relationship without any of the drawbacks and any of the work? How great is that?
FB situations don't work out because nobody's going to buy the cow when they're getting the milk for free. Any FB who thinks that, if they fuck someone enough, they'll fall madly in love is hopelessly deluded. A FB is a walking, talking, breathing sex aid who'll cook you breakfast and nothing more.
The only FB situations that work out without someone getting hurt are the ones where BOTH partners appreciate the situation for what it is and BOTH partners only want the sex and companionship until they find something better.
Maybe she has beer flavoured nipples or something....(Yes I'm sure she has a lovely personality and I know it's not her fault, she prob doesn't have a clue about me but I'm just annoyed right now...)
Oh well, I'm just listening to Kelis "I hate you so much right now" and giggling away. I will get over it. The best revenge will be to move on..............while looking super hot in my facebook pictures hahahaha!
the thought of this gives me a boner.
Lol
IMO no-one should be complaining about how their ex-fuck buddy is a shit because he (or she, for that matter) didn't want a relationship beyond hanging out and having sex and instead got together with someone else, fuck buddies have NO obligations to be anything other than fuck buddies, that is the explicit agreement. There's plenty of "nice guys" out there if you're feeling "used" from a fuck buddy situation, needy guys who will put any half decent girl on a pedestal and worship them as some kind of godess, but they don't get a look in...so no pity from me!
You say that as if there is something better.
There clearly is, otherwise why are these boards full of people ruing the fact that their FB's gone off with another person?
Lol, I already own one. Not to put it too blunty but sometimes a vibrator just doesn't cut it and you really need actual cock....
what do you think that clearly is?
Because clearly all relationships, whether you're "fuck buddies" or in a "committed relationship", are just sex and companionship until you find some better...or you can't find someone better, can't handle life on its own, so you're stuck with them until death releases you from the horror that is life
PMSL too, better than sobbing into a pillow.
Have you done that before? I can picture it.
picturing me tucked up in bed all warm and snuggly?
how sweet of you katralla, bless
Yep, I've never met someone so sweet as you. You put the sweetness in...let's see...super sweet sweetiness?
Hahaha! That is actually so true when you think about... :P
What you're describing is one of the oldest cliches in the book. Not to mention that being a lying cheating dad rather than a divorced happier dad is not in the children's benefit.
If he has left his wife once and tells you now he wants his wife to leave him... well... why doesn't he leave her himself rather than come up with a bullshit excuse using his kids to string you along?
You really don't see the big badass flaming red flags in what you wrote?
Never was the saying "why buy the cow when you get the milk for free?" so apt.
There's nothing really wrong with the situation if you're happy being the bit of fluff on the side (some people are) but it doesn't sound like you are. There are plenty of brilliant available men so why waste time on an arsehole?