I think I might be pregnant.. I'm 13!!!

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I think I might be pregnant. my b/f fingered me with cum on his hands, about 2 months ago. I've have a lot of symtoms of pregnancy and think I'm pregnant because of that. I'm probably going to do a test on Friday but I'm really scared!!!!!!

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Originally posted by crazy 8itch:
I think I might be pregnant. my b/f fingered me with cum on his hands, about 2 months ago. I've have a lot of symtoms of pregnancy and think I'm pregnant because of that. I'm probably going to do a test on Friday but I'm really scared!!!!!!

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Well first of all you have to get this test asap and see for certain or not. Don't panic until you have done the test. Tell us how it goes

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Is possible, best of luck.

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Jesus is everyone having babies all of a sudden lmao!!! Im not so alone now <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; (j/k). Hope that u aint pregnant and that its just a false alarm...please let us no as soon as u do.

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Why is it that people who don't want to get pregnant, do, and people who do, don't?

Welcome to thesite 8itch, good luck with the test.

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i doubt it cos ive had sex twice without a johny and nothing has happened plus were only fertile about two days of the month - good luck.

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Originally posted by lorraine1:
i doubt it cos ive had sex twice without a johny and nothing has happened plus were only fertile about two days of the month - good luck.

Just coz u had sex twice without using anything and dint get pregnant dont mean that its less likely crazy is. U can get pregnant the first time second time third time...anytime!It dont make a differenc, if u have sex without using anything, there is a chance u can get pregnant. Its not as likely with crazy as she didnt actually have sex but there is still a chance.

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Originally posted by lorraine1:
i doubt it cos ive had sex twice without a johny and nothing has happened plus were only fertile about two days of the month - good luck.

but sperm are designed to live for a little while, to make best use of the fertile period. 2 days is a massive generalisation.

It took me six years to get pregnant first time & 18 months the second time, but I wouldn't say to people - it's ok, it takes 6 years to get pregnant first time

I'm sorry to get on your case Lorraine, you haven't been around much, how are you?

j9

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Crazy 8itch - i really hope ur not pregnant - good luk with the test. Fingers crossed eh?

Originally posted by lorraine1:
i doubt it cos ive had sex twice without a johny and nothing has happened plus were only fertile about two days of the month - good luck.

Thats really dangerous lorraine. U shud never have sex without a condom unless u r willing to put up with the responsibility of a child - or a sexually transmitted disease(!) U can get pregnant @ any time!

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When I have sex (sort of confused smile) I think that I am going to take the necessary precautions, make myself wear 40 condoms! now theres protection for you!!!!!

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if you wear more than one condom at once, there'll be friction and a possibility of rupturing the rubber, so its worse than just wearing one!!! but there are thicker ones if you're scared of just wearing the normal thickness ones (i dont think it makes any difference to be honest, the thicker ones are designed for anal sex as the rectum does not lubricate itself and so its safer to use thicker ones).

sperm can survive for at least 5 days, and we're actually fertile longer than 2 days every month! from the time the egg is released from the ovary until teh time it actually passes out of the body during menstruation. ovulation is roughly at day 14, ie 2 weeks after you start your period. and therefore it follows that the egg is present in the fallopian tubes and inside the uterus for about 2 weeks?? and theres massive variation on all aspects of this as its different for everyone and controlled by hormones, so dont take the chance!!!!

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this happened with me and my ex g/f. althought she wasnt worried cos her periods came every 2 months but she wasnt worried. i think i had a bit of cum on my hand when i fingered her but wasnt sure and it scared the shit outta me. but she was alright. how long was the cum on his hand before he put it in u? cos any longer than 10 mins outside the body and the sperms dies i hear. anyone clarify this? well hope u aint preggy, have u had your periods in the 2 months. we are all here for you, and even though i am kinda new here im sure it'll all be fine. remeber if u are prgnant you have many options!

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It's unlikely you are pregnant Crazy, but it IS possible. Get that test as soon as you can. Let us know as soon as you know the result, we're here to help <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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im sorry to hear about your situation. you should get your test done a.s.a.p.
lonely-in-life is right. if he did finger u immediately with his cum...hmm...you MIGHT be pregnant. but if he left it longer than 10mins or so...the sperms would have died anyway.
i actually have quite a few friends who are pregnant and keeping the baby. Uk does have one of the highest teenage pregancies! and they're happy...tough work and had to give many things up - but they're happy and their b/f's has stuck by them. so what ever happens...you're not alone. but maybe you aren't pregnant afterall and im just talking a whole load of shit...
get the test done and goodluck! let us know how it go...

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ok, im realy worried, no im dont think im preggie, but this talk of people who want babies sumtimes cant have em! well, i want kids soooooo badly, not yet, in a few yrs, and i have an obsession with twins. so do u think my eagerness and longin 4 kids may b due to the fact that i might b unable to concieve? please say no. ive wondered bout it 4 yrs, prob since i was 14. ever1 who knows me knows how much i want kids. im scared.
i feel stupid askin, but i wanna know wot u think. cheers guys.
j9 u've scared me!!!!! only messin

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Hey <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
There is a chance you could be!Get a test just to be safe! Having a bab at 16/17 is bad enough never mind 13!! What sort of symptoms have you been getting???
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hey helly don't b worried.

most people can have kids - look @ all the ones that are popping up around here!!! lol <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

I guess u wont know 4 definite that u can till ur preggers, but cor its nuffink to worry bout til u actually want 2 av them <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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Originally posted by Lonely-in-life:
cos any longer than 10 mins outside the body and the sperms dies i hear. anyone clarify this?

Sorry, but I believe that sperm can live for more than 10 minutes. I used to work in the Path labs of a hospital & the senior chief used to do the sperm counts.

I believe motility was part of the count. People used to bring their samples in, in a little plastic pot, kept warm under their arm. I know that it was more than 10 mins b4 the counts were done.

j9

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Originally posted by helly:
ok, im realy worried, no im dont think im preggie, but this talk of people who want babies sumtimes cant have em! well, i want kids soooooo badly, not yet, in a few yrs, and i have an obsession with twins. so do u think my eagerness and longin 4 kids may b due to the fact that i might b unable to concieve? please say no. ive wondered bout it 4 yrs, prob since i was 14. ever1 who knows me knows how much i want kids. im scared.
i feel stupid askin, but i wanna know wot u think. cheers guys.
j9 u've scared me!!!!! only messin

Hey helly u have nothing to worry about Im sure. I wanted children from a really young age and Ive always been well into babies and stuff, thats not how come Im pregnant though...it certainly wasnt planned! But anyway, I managed to get pregnant and Ive always wanted a baby and it didnt stop me did it lmao! I do no though that if u r having problems conceiving often when u try for years with nothing and then u finally decide to call it a day, u get pregnant. Ive heard loads of stories like that b4.

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Originally posted by lolly:
I do no though that if u r having problems conceiving often when u try for years with nothing and then u finally decide to call it a day, u get pregnant. Ive heard loads of stories like that b4.

And here's another one lol. As I said, it took me 6 years to get pregnant first time, & with three different guys, (what a slapper lol) all of which had produced offspring. (my ex-husband got a friend of his pregnant after we split up).

In the end, my hubby & I went to se the doc, who told me it must be my fault (going on what I'd said) so he booked us in to see the fertility consultant.

About a week b4 our appointment, I found out that I was pregnant!!!! I can only assume that you can make (albeit subconsciously) your body not get pregnant!!

I sometimes think that maybe my body didn't let me get pregnant with my 1st husband because subconsciously I knew I wouldn't be staying with him.

But then of course there is the sheep theory lol, don't worry, it'll make sense in a minute lol.

Our GP told us that if a farmer has a sheep that won't fall pregnant, they can put them on a fast, then fatten them up just before introducing them to the rampant ram.

Apparently it works because I had been on a diet & had just come of the diet & was binging when I fell pregnant. Baaaaa.

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j9

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So crazy 8itch, are you preggie or not?

j9

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THanx guyz. I still don't know if I'm pregnant or not 'casue as i said i was going to do a test yesterday but my m8 who was gonna come with me had to cancel and no other m8s were free and i wasn't gonna do it on my own so I don't know. I'm gonna do a test a.s.a.p. I'm so worried.
Oh yeah my symtoms are:2short, light periods (v.stange for me), needing the loo a lot, feeling sick ~ especially in the mornings, put on weight and feeling tired.
Plz keep writing and I'll tell you all as soon as i know.
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((((Crazy 8itch)))) those are all the symptoms!

I really hope ur not preggers!

Let us know when u do! We're all thinking bout u!

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Originally posted by j9:
And here's another one lol. As I said, it took me 6 years to get pregnant first time, & with three different guys, (what a slapper lol) all of which had produced offspring. (my ex-husband got a friend of his pregnant after we split up).

In the end, my hubby & I went to se the doc, who told me it must be my fault (going on what I'd said) so he booked us in to see the fertility consultant.

About a week b4 our appointment, I found out that I was pregnant!!!! I can only assume that you can make (albeit subconsciously) your body not get pregnant!!

I sometimes think that maybe my body didn't let me get pregnant with my 1st husband because subconsciously I knew I wouldn't be staying with him.

But then of course there is the sheep theory lol, don't worry, it'll make sense in a minute lol.

Our GP told us that if a farmer has a sheep that won't fall pregnant, they can put them on a fast, then fatten them up just before introducing them to the rampant ram.

Apparently it works because I had been on a diet & had just come of the diet & was binging when I fell pregnant. Baaaaa.

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j9

lmao j9, u make me laugh. By the way u aint a slapper...however u r a bit of a sheep by the sounds of it pahahahaaha!That was a joke by the way <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

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so crazy 8itch...are u pregnant or not?

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ru pregnant r nut?

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look i know i should be saying don't worry or go and have the test but it was pretty stupid doing wot u did at ur age in the first place

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crazy 8itch have u missed your period??? if u have then u should deffonatly take a pregnancy test. it may sound a bit hypocritical as i lost my virginity when i was 14 but if u and ur bf are doing anything sexual the u should be careful, if he had cum on his hands then u should'nt have let him finger you.

is your boyfriend older than u? dont let him pressure u into doing anything you dont wanna do (coming from personal experience)

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Originally posted by buttmuncher:
look i know i should be saying don't worry or go and have the test but it was pretty stupid doing wot u did at ur age in the first place

Urr get in the real world. Things like this do happen and its life. She didnt actually sleep with him, Id say that was at least a good thing wouldnt u???

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Originally posted by lolly:

Urr get in the real world. Things like this do happen and its life. She didnt actually sleep with him, Id say that was at least a good thing wouldnt u???

I agree! Its not like this was total carelessness and disregard - like actually sleeping with him with no protection. More like youthful miseducation and lack of thought. The odds must be freakishly high - if she is pregnant then she has been very misfortuante and I feel very sorry for her.

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Originally posted by buttmuncher:
look i know i should be saying don't worry or go and have the test but it was pretty stupid doing wot u did at ur age in the first place

Nobody asks to be judged on what they did here!