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I think I might be pregnant.. I'm 13!!!
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I think I might be pregnant. my b/f fingered me with cum on his hands, about 2 months ago. I've have a lot of symtoms of pregnancy and think I'm pregnant because of that. I'm probably going to do a test on Friday but I'm really scared!!!!!!
Love me
A peach is a peach, a plum is a plum, and a kiss aint a kiss without some tounge so open your mouth and close your eyes and give that tounge some exercise!
Love me
A peach is a peach, a plum is a plum, and a kiss aint a kiss without some tounge so open your mouth and close your eyes and give that tounge some exercise!
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Well first of all you have to get this test asap and see for certain or not. Don't panic until you have done the test. Tell us how it goes
good luck
Respect
[This message has been edited by city_boy (edited 31-01-2001).]
I've not lost my mind it's inserted elsewhere - hence the limp.
Welcome to thesite 8itch, good luck with the test.
j9
I had a life once, but I stopped feeding it so one day it just walked away.
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[This message has been edited by j9 (edited 01-02-2001).]
Just coz u had sex twice without using anything and dint get pregnant dont mean that its less likely crazy is. U can get pregnant the first time second time third time...anytime!It dont make a differenc, if u have sex without using anything, there is a chance u can get pregnant. Its not as likely with crazy as she didnt actually have sex but there is still a chance.
but sperm are designed to live for a little while, to make best use of the fertile period. 2 days is a massive generalisation.
It took me six years to get pregnant first time & 18 months the second time, but I wouldn't say to people - it's ok, it takes 6 years to get pregnant first time
I'm sorry to get on your case Lorraine, you haven't been around much, how are you?
j9
I had a life once, but I stopped feeding it so one day it just walked away.
MTS ^5
Thats really dangerous lorraine. U shud never have sex without a condom unless u r willing to put up with the responsibility of a child - or a sexually transmitted disease(!) U can get pregnant @ any time!
Another turning point, a fork stuck in the road. Time grabs you by the wrist, directs you where to go.
I never said I loved you...
However I will fuck you...
until someone better comes along!!!!
sperm can survive for at least 5 days, and we're actually fertile longer than 2 days every month! from the time the egg is released from the ovary until teh time it actually passes out of the body during menstruation. ovulation is roughly at day 14, ie 2 weeks after you start your period. and therefore it follows that the egg is present in the fallopian tubes and inside the uterus for about 2 weeks?? and theres massive variation on all aspects of this as its different for everyone and controlled by hormones, so dont take the chance!!!!
If you don't know where you're going, you'll probably end up somewhere else.
If you have 3 friends, you are a rich man, no matter how much money you have.
lonely-in-life is right. if he did finger u immediately with his cum...hmm...you MIGHT be pregnant. but if he left it longer than 10mins or so...the sperms would have died anyway.
i actually have quite a few friends who are pregnant and keeping the baby. Uk does have one of the highest teenage pregancies! and they're happy...tough work and had to give many things up - but they're happy and their b/f's has stuck by them. so what ever happens...you're not alone. but maybe you aren't pregnant afterall and im just talking a whole load of shit...
get the test done and goodluck! let us know how it go...
i feel stupid askin, but i wanna know wot u think. cheers guys.
j9 u've scared me!!!!! only messin
Hey <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
There is a chance you could be!Get a test just to be safe! Having a bab at 16/17 is bad enough never mind 13!! What sort of symptoms have you been getting???
Love GrizzlyB <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
most people can have kids - look @ all the ones that are popping up around here!!! lol <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
I guess u wont know 4 definite that u can till ur preggers, but cor its nuffink to worry bout til u actually want 2 av them <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
Another turning point, a fork stuck in the road. Time grabs you by the wrist, directs you where to go.
Sorry, but I believe that sperm can live for more than 10 minutes. I used to work in the Path labs of a hospital & the senior chief used to do the sperm counts.
I believe motility was part of the count. People used to bring their samples in, in a little plastic pot, kept warm under their arm. I know that it was more than 10 mins b4 the counts were done.
j9
I had a life once, but I stopped feeding it so one day it just walked away.
MTS ^5
Hey helly u have nothing to worry about Im sure. I wanted children from a really young age and Ive always been well into babies and stuff, thats not how come Im pregnant though...it certainly wasnt planned! But anyway, I managed to get pregnant and Ive always wanted a baby and it didnt stop me did it lmao! I do no though that if u r having problems conceiving often when u try for years with nothing and then u finally decide to call it a day, u get pregnant. Ive heard loads of stories like that b4.
Crazy...R u pregnant then r not...Im dying to no <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
And here's another one lol. As I said, it took me 6 years to get pregnant first time, & with three different guys, (what a slapper lol) all of which had produced offspring. (my ex-husband got a friend of his pregnant after we split up).
In the end, my hubby & I went to se the doc, who told me it must be my fault (going on what I'd said) so he booked us in to see the fertility consultant.
About a week b4 our appointment, I found out that I was pregnant!!!! I can only assume that you can make (albeit subconsciously) your body not get pregnant!!
I sometimes think that maybe my body didn't let me get pregnant with my 1st husband because subconsciously I knew I wouldn't be staying with him.
But then of course there is the sheep theory lol, don't worry, it'll make sense in a minute lol.
Our GP told us that if a farmer has a sheep that won't fall pregnant, they can put them on a fast, then fatten them up just before introducing them to the rampant ram.
Apparently it works because I had been on a diet & had just come of the diet & was binging when I fell pregnant. Baaaaa.
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j9
I had a life once, but I stopped feeding it so one day it just walked away.
MTS ^5
j9
I had a life once, but I stopped feeding it so one day it just walked away.
MTS ^5
Oh yeah my symtoms are:2short, light periods (v.stange for me), needing the loo a lot, feeling sick ~ especially in the mornings, put on weight and feeling tired.
Plz keep writing and I'll tell you all as soon as i know.
Love me
A peach is a peach, a plum is a plum, and a kiss aint a kiss without some tounge so open your mouth and close your eyes and give that tounge some exercise!
I really hope ur not preggers!
Let us know when u do! We're all thinking bout u!
Another turning point, a fork stuck in the road. Time grabs you by the wrist, directs you where to go.
lmao j9, u make me laugh. By the way u aint a slapper...however u r a bit of a sheep by the sounds of it pahahahaaha!That was a joke by the way <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
is your boyfriend older than u? dont let him pressure u into doing anything you dont wanna do (coming from personal experience)
Urr get in the real world. Things like this do happen and its life. She didnt actually sleep with him, Id say that was at least a good thing wouldnt u???
I agree! Its not like this was total carelessness and disregard - like actually sleeping with him with no protection. More like youthful miseducation and lack of thought. The odds must be freakishly high - if she is pregnant then she has been very misfortuante and I feel very sorry for her.
Marvin
"And then she asked me, 'Do I look alright?' And I say 'Yes, you look wonderful tonight.'"
Nobody asks to be judged on what they did here!