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Id love to be able to say Im a person not a number, but those who know me, know I cant really get away saying that
I know you a bit, you are definitely a number :P
Exactly. This is what I'm saying.
But youve been saying all along theres no point to it. So why do you wanna get married. Im so confused
It's not the piece of paper. It's the promise. It's saying, in front of whatever power you believe in (God, or the law, or your family, or whatever) that you love this person so much that you promise that you will choose them above all else, always.
Of course, if you don't mean it when you promise, the promise is meaningless. And obviously on the flip side, just because you don't promise doesn't mean you don't mean it.
It's a choice. You should do it only cause you want to, cause you think it's right, and then what you don't need is all the cynics crawling out of the woodwork saying, 'it's only a piece of paper' or 'it's 50/50 it'll end in divorce anyway'. Live and let live, that's all that's being said here.
I agree. It is also a way of publicly declaring and celebrating your love with your friends and family ... though some of the weddings I've attended in my time, you might wonder!?
I love you Kaff *hug*