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I can't manage someone's death alone.
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But we are here for you, if you need to talk and you don't have to be alone through it. So If it helps keep posting.
HI ahl,
how are you feeling now??
were here if you need us:)
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This has obviously been really upsetting news to hear, as it would be for everyone. Can I ask who told you about the death of your friend? Are you able to talk to them about the friend that you've both lost? If it was someone close to your family then perhaps you could talk to other family members about the grief you are experiencing?
It could be good to just talk a bit about the person you've lost. You could do that here or if there's somewhere else where people are recording their feelings (a facebook page perhaps?), just as a way of letting out a little of that emotional hurt.
Cruse is an organisation that deals with bereavement and you might want to remember their number. They can be called on 0844 477 9400. You may also want to talk to your GP about it, to see if they can offer anything to help, especially in the short term where your loss will be so raw.
I was told by a friend of mine last Wednesday; I'm just unable to manage it being alone; and being able or at least make attempts to keep myself alive too.
I hope some of that helps
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It might be helpful for yourself and everyone who is reading your posts if you could try to talk about how you are feeling and what you're going through. The best way the boards can help people is to give them a space to discuss the emotions you're feeling. As it is I think people are finding it hard to respond.
Can you maybe let people know what situation you're in, do you live alone? Is there anyone else you live with you can talk to? Is there anyone you work with or hang out with you could get some support from right now?
I know you are finding everything very hard and that you think death is your best option.
I think you should speak to a doctor, I know you don't want to I understand that, but no one wants to see you so upset. A lot of people care about you, and at the end of the day yes it is your choice to live or die... but death is very final. Before you die, I think you should try all your options. And, going to the doctors or asking for professional help is an option.
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Hunny, as I said to you many times before... you are important, you have got to look to the future, and I know for a fact you can do that.
You are important, but you just have to start beleiving you are
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You know, deep down, you know you need help. But needing and wanting are different things. You don't have to get help, you can live in a state of fear, a state of life that is not really living. Or, you can learn to accept what you know you need.
There are people out there who want to help you, who will jump at the chance to. It's just about finding the help you want, that you can accept. That will help you.
If there is anything I can do, you know where I am
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Have you spoken to anyone about how you feel? A family member or friend?
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what that's what happens to me but i thought half of these were my herlems disorder where i'm sensitive to light, sound, touch, feel, smells and taste i dignose myself most of the time and i can now post info about this disorder on my health site and ya it's a .org domain which mean the info what i discover about this problem won't be off the web it will be 100% true info