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brother wont let me grow up
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hi
ive just started to go out with this lad a year older than me and he has become so over protective about it all.... i mean worse than my actually parents who really like him and i have no problem with it
They are away for the weekend and says that he can come round but now my brother is like planning on coming just so nothing will happen!
its so annoying cus i just want to spend time with my bf without anyone else...
how can i approach him without making him more annoyed or more suspicious about things...
please help
xx
ive just started to go out with this lad a year older than me and he has become so over protective about it all.... i mean worse than my actually parents who really like him and i have no problem with it
They are away for the weekend and says that he can come round but now my brother is like planning on coming just so nothing will happen!
its so annoying cus i just want to spend time with my bf without anyone else...
how can i approach him without making him more annoyed or more suspicious about things...
please help
xx
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Have you tried talking to him about it? If not thats where i would start, and because hes your brother i bet its very easy to get in arguments just make sure you deal with this in a mature manor, arguing will mae things worse.
thanks
xx
It annoys me when guys are over-protective of their sisters when, in fact, they'd be quite happy to bonk somebody else's sister. May I suggest that you bolt the door from the inside and tell him to bugger off?
ha ive told him that he wont be meeting him if he annoys me that night! so im hoping that will work.. but if not i will be doing that plan!
its annoying because he know i wont do anything stupid but i mean what was he doing at my age!
xx