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knowing the person is a vergin or not?
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:chin: Hi, im new to this. I m going to be married in june 2009. im afraid of many things. i need some information to make myself comfortable. i have never gone through sex. i m of 26. i m in doubt, can we be sure that the person we are going with is a vergin or not?
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You will need for this test:
Butter - 175g (6 oz), softened
Caster sugar - 175g (6 oz)
Eggs - 3
Self raising flour - 175g (6 oz), sifted
Icing sugar - sifted, optional, or caster sugar
Cream the butter and sugar together in a bowl and Add the egg yolks, mix together gently then add the flour carefully (some chefs say 1 teaspoonful at a time but half and half is fine)
Place in a well greased cake tin, 6 to 8 inches across
Bake in a preheated oven at 180c
Eat the cake and stop worrying about things that dont really matter.
In all seriousness, the best way to find out if someone is a virgin is probablay to ask them even thought it might feel awkward. Would it change things for you if your fiance wasn't a virgin? Or are you worried because you are?
Good communication is really important in a relationship and it's understandable to be afraid of sex for the first time.
Good luck with everything
Is it an arranged marriage? Where do live, whats your religiuos background etc?
i think we all need to remember that there are some cultures where virginity til married is a big issue and not just jump on someone saying that it doesn't matter when someone is just asking a question.
None of these things will help you tell the OP how to "be sure" their partner is a virgin - because there is no way.
The best you can get is asking them, and there are all sorts of reasons that they might choose to conceal the truth - either way.
Fucking spammer!
or it could be an arranged marriage.