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You don't see it but it will be added to my list very soon.
Maybe you should try a life coach you'll find a life change
you never knew possible.
I don't need a life change.
that way you'll have a counsellor who doesn't talk back.
I don't know if that's supposed to be funny...
^^^^^^^^^^^^^
You don't.. so you want your life to be one of hating yourself?
Consider my advice as self experienced..
Why would it to be funny? It was an offer, I'm not here to
judge you.. something you seem to be finding hard to get
around.
There is nothing wrong with my 'life'. It's a deeply engraved feeling about myself I need changed.
Isn't a deeply engraved feeling about yourslef.. part of your life?
Haven't you read my posts?
I can't take a compliment, let alone some random coming along and telling me they want to change my life.
I always assume that everyone is judging me. It's part of my condition.
that it's curable with the right action..
As I said from self experience, you either listen or you don't.
Thats your decision, but there really is no ending until you
find the cure..
It's there for you waiting for you, it's there for everyone that
gets in a muddle, but as already mentioned some people
make it through their whole life without ever needing to
know the cure, with you, it's different you do and when
you find it.. everything will be forgotten and you will move
forward.
Where is this 'cure' then?
the taks, but you blatantly refused to take them on
board. That's totally understandable because not
understanding how something works is enough to
say no.
You can try those or if you really want I will point
you in the direction of a book that will help heal
and help you to foget the past...
I've been there, my life wasn't easy, but so are
many other peoples, some can get on with it and
feel ok, some can't and for those that can't the
cure is there.
a spiritual belief such as God is another amazingly
powerful way to get your life back on track, you
wouldn't believe how powerful.
But because I know everyone isn't religious nor
spiritual the book I will point you to is neither
spiritually or religously inclined.
Preaching to the converted. Apart from a brief period in my life I have always believed in God. I believe now more than ever in my life.
Faith is not about making your life seem better - I've come by more hardships than easy way outs by being a Christian throughout my life.
So...I've got my Bible, and I read it when I need to.
It is possible to feel shit about yourself while also believing in God and a Saviour.
but it depends on your requests, what you request is
what you will recieve.. not requesting what you want
is a major error with spiritual belief.
If you want to know what the book is don't be afraid to
ask I can guarantee your curiosity will lead to satisfaction.
So now you're telling me I'm going about my own faith the wrong way?
No wonder people have the ideas about faith and religion that they do...
...it's not about asking for what you want and getting a nice way out of things.
And no thank you. If it's so amazing I don't understand why you didn't just post the name of it ages ago and say, 'This is a great book and I'd really recommend it.'
I'm afraid dancing horse you are too stubborn for your own
good, I'm no psycologist as you already said, so why am I
wasting my time on a Friday night of all nights.. it seems
more like "your out for a debate" rather than help.
When you get your priorities right I do hope you find what
you're looking for thats if it's not to stage a debate about
your lifes problems and the people who try to help you.
Thanks.
I'm not taking patronising posts off anyone tonight.
I'm not saying you have to message me either. Don't play martyr where you're not.
If I'm debating, it's because I think you're being patronising (again) and I think you're oversimplifying everything.
You won't make this go away. Not you, not your ideas.
I'm not even sure I asked for help and advice. But it's welcome...just not in the way you've gone about it.
I have my priorities straight, thank you very much. I don't know what you're expecting of me.
Your ignorant of your own problems that in itself is
a problem.
Ignorant of my own problems? I'm pretty sure that I outlined them all very nicely and neatly at the start of this thread.
where DancingHorse had no recognition of her problem
and ta her life was fine.. when at the beginning of
this thread and throughout she complained of so
many problems..
The only problem was that Dacing deicded to back and
forth an argument instead of at least thinking about
my advice and as for not giving life coaching, I felt
obliged to offer some very powerful techniques which
probably nowhere else would anyone offer such value
for free.
It's up to dancing what to do, not me I leave it with her.
I hope she can see past her resistance to learn and find
the answers.
like this
like its some form of poetry or
copied and pasted from an
email?
Aww! I didn't even see this cause of the silly posts!
Actually, that kinda cheers me up better than lifecoaching. Definitely does.
Because I want to.
No Probs DH.
DH?
That'd be me.
How come.. what is it?
See?