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Since then I know you can "break" a person. Not in the physical sense, but she just doesn't 'work' anymore, like a damaged clockwork. It makes me angry that there are people that does this, and it makes me angry that people voluntarily go through this, especially cuz they might be prone to attract abusive relationships/partners again and again and be trapped in them for far to long.
I don't know if one can "love" such a person. You might depend on them, like a hostage depends on it's kidnapper after some time. I think there is something fundamentally wrong with one (sounds harsh, but that's what it is) if one accepts this and should seek professional help even after that nightmare is over.
we have been togther half a year now
ooooo, that's a completely different situation then.
The implant is a great idea, just be aware that i can take a long time to settle down.
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That's a great way of thinking.