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I've had some lovely texts of people along those lines in the past, or where they've followed up on what I thought was a jokey conversation.
But if they're in her MSN files, they can't be unsolicited because surely she'd have to accept the file?
Personally I'd take step back from the relationship and ask yourself if you can trust this girl. She craves the cock, looking at one just doesn't seem to be enough for her greedy little eyes. You, as well as her, will have your hands full if you're not careful and things will get messy.
Put the breaks on the relationship now and slow things down. And next time the cock crazy cow tells you that she loves you, tell her you've seen the new pics on her pc. From there then question her love for you. it'll be enough to shame the girl and she'll promise not to do it again, from there you'll be able to tell if you believe her this time or not. Personally, and it's just where my head's at, I'd plan for the worse and try not fall for this girl anymore.
If you do stay with this girl you can bet she'll be locking her pc when you're around in future lol.
Seriously she been equipping herself with an arsenal of willys pics. Nows the time to respect yourself and stand firm! Any more crazy shit and I'd can the bitch.
I don't think it's too likely since there is a preview before you accept the transfer on msn and I don't think she'd just accept any random transfer. Also I reckon the new pic might be the same guy that's in some of the old ones she's kept (why delete some but keep others?)
You're right Harmless... she is basically a very horny girl and I don't know if I can trust her! I'm slightly scared by the whole "I love you" thing so soon as well.
She seems really edgy whenever I might be on her computer unsupervised and will never let me see the screen on her phone when she opens texts etc (not that i'm trying to particularly). At the moment it's a long way from my last relationship where we knew each others passwords etc.
Do you really want to be with someone you can't trust, and appears to be deceitful?
It's not exactly a superb set of foundations for a relationship...
Only problem is that it will hurt a lot more to break up in the future if it doesn't work out but other than this we click really well together so i'm willing to give it a shot.
Thanks for the advice though guys :thumb:
Agreed. But it's life, we all make mistakes. You'll recover from any future pain and be fine. For now you'll have lots of fun with her and be happy, so enjoy it mate
The gay-guy new bf penis thing is about as fishy as..... as fish? It's a dick, regardless if gay or not and her alarm bells should ring if someone tells her on msn "hey check out this picture of this dick of someone i know." after you had all these discussions.
After it happened twice now, I couldn't be stopped to have a peek every now and then (I know, it's bad, but who could hold it against me?), if there is one more cock inside there, and if it's just rooster I have my shit packed and leave her behind in my past, quicker as you can say cock 3 times in a row.
Yeah but i'd rather not make the mistakes and avoid the pain
You seem to all think she's in the wrong.
I'm more worried now but there's nothing I can do really. I'm not prepared to dump her just on this evidence.
It's almost tempting but I just don't think I could be that deceitful!
How much more evidence do you want mate? You gonna wait till one of these cocks pops out of her PC and slaps you round the face? Gay cock or not, this shit ain't right.
She is in the wrong. She must be very naive to think that you wont be upset/dumping her arse for having cocks on her pc that aren't of your member. No matter how much she claims to 'love' you, if you let this shit go without shaming her arse and making her understand fully that she can not go about willy-nilly collecting pics of cocks, then you really are setting yourself up for big hurt.
If the tables were turned and she was on your PC and found shit load of pussy pics, do you think she'd let it slide? More so if she caught you again and you tried to brush it off as your 'lesbo' mate sent em to you to see the new fanny she licking. Don't think that shit will wash, do you?
You carry on with this relationship knowing that you will most likely end up hurt during it. So be it, just remember that whatever happens you will get over it and learn from it.
It's gonna take me some time to get over her, but at least this didn't happen 6 months or a year down the line!
I think you have to be a bit understanding in the early days of a relationship though and explain the situation before you take it as a personal stab. Some people ain't as smooth in the transition to commitment.
Personally, there's no way I'm deleting my Internet History until I know she's a keeper.
I suppose on the bright side, you know what to get her for Valentines Day. A photo montage of man meat.
EDIT: oh didnt see youve ended, sorry to hear that bro, a better lass will come along
Mate it'll take few weeks/months (doubtful years) to get over it all. The great thing is you'll be able to take away experience from it, be it the good and the bad, it'll all help you to learn who you are and how best to deal with new relationships in future.
And remember dude - she's a bitch and you're better off without her
give yourself enough time to heal and, as Harmless said, take this bit of experience with you and learn from it for future relationships