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How do women know when they come?
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coz i bitch about my exz all the time. its very.. satisfying. oh the things i could say..
you say love is a hell you cannot bear, and i say give me myne back and then go there, for all i care
on the subject of orgasms....i didn't ask my ex of 5 years or my current g/f of 2 years if they'd had one, is this is a bad thing? To me it was obvious if she had orgasmed, and if she didn't it wasn't a major drama as there's always next time <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">.
I do that!!! Just before im about to come, or if im really turned on!!
What's slightly worryin thou is that i do it when im drunk too.
Dunno the connection tho! Anyone??
"I just want to feel safe in my own skin. I just want to be happy again." -Dido
It's all to do with blood flow & body temperature
j9
I had a life once, but I stopped feeding it so one day it just walked away.
MTS ^5
Should i be offended by that! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">
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Having said that, I admit I've faked it. And for the same reasons as have been said - I'm just not into it, and I can't be asked, and that they just try harder and harder and it definitely makes it worse.
With my boyfriend now though- I've never faked it. If I don't cum once in a while its no big deal, and he doesn't get all insecure about it. Which then acutally makes me more comfortable and I in turn rarely don't cum. Know what I mean?? Its like circular or something. Fabulous <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
[This message has been edited by trancegrrl (edited 10-01-2001).]
and how abput faking the roll over and snore bit
having said that, a couple of times ive just had to stop when trying to give my boyf an orgasm.. especially if im tired as my arm totally doesnt have that much energy!! bet he was just being awkward. lol... whats a LOT worse than not being able to make him come is him not even being aroused! or not "seeming" aroused anyway. thats just all around not good, just makes you feel inadequate or unsexy or something. and then he gets all bothered about it. i suppose im just as bad as all the insecure blokes that women have to fake orgasms with, getting the hump if i cant even give someone an erection!!
If you don't know where you're going, you'll probably end up somewhere else.
Hi all, sorry haven't been around for a while, just that life is a bit hectic (although not with anything remotely fascinating - so all those single women out there, get in touch..... hehe! Anyway, I'm always around just reading stuff and usually don't have a lot to say, but this one caught my eye (so to speak <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"> )
I have faked it before with a girl - pretty much for the same reasons as the women: bored and want to go to sleep and can't *quite* get to the orgasm stage!
Mind you it's only happened the once!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"> and I think it might have had something to do with the fact that I had been drinking and she was being very demanding! A "lame" excuse (get it!?), I know.
Rolling over and going to sleep, now that one's easy - I never need to fake that because I just don't do it! I prefer to hug and stuff! Not like a real man at all eh? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/cool.gif">
Personally, I think it is a bit sad to have to fake it, but to be honest, if it saves hurting someones feelings, then why not! As long as it's not a constant thing.
As for the bit about not being able to get an erection or whatever, well - that's normal and it's interesting that it should be brought up because I imagine most women would feel a bit confused about that. How do you think guys feel!?
It is possible to feel very turned on but lose your erection - mainly because you are not relaxed enough and usually down to a lack of foreplay - but I suspect most men react the same way - eek it's floppy time, she'll think I'm not interested (when you are)!
HAPPY 2001 !
Alan London
[This message has been edited by Alan london (edited 11-01-2001).]
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j9
I had a life once, but I stopped feeding it so one day it just walked away.
MTS ^5
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j9
I had a life once, but I stopped feeding it so one day it just walked away.
MTS ^5
i'm not denying that women are stupid; God made us to match the men.
Well this woman was in a restaraunte and started to show this bloke how she faked it. She was being so noisy that all the other customers turned round and stared. When shed finished all the other women started clappin and congratulatin her on her actin skills!!
Hee hee!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
"I just want to feel safe in my own skin. I just want to be happy again." -Dido
and one woman said "I'll have what she's having" lol
j9
I had a life once, but I stopped feeding it so one day it just walked away.
MTS ^5
lol, <picture forming mode>
j9
I had a life once, but I stopped feeding it so one day it just walked away.
MTS ^5