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Straight guys and BJs
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Hi there!
This is for straight lads in particular: I was wondering how you guys feel about other guys giving you oral. Does it only feel good when it's a girl, or is the case where a BJ is a BJ, no matter who is giving it?
Thanks a lot!
This is for straight lads in particular: I was wondering how you guys feel about other guys giving you oral. Does it only feel good when it's a girl, or is the case where a BJ is a BJ, no matter who is giving it?
Thanks a lot!
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It would feel exactly the same physically but as KT said, the mental aspect would make it terrible.
I never had a bj of a bloke before and i can't say i want to, but i Imagine it feels the same, But why do you ask such a question anyway?
Makes me Ponder(Sp?) if girls are better at oral on other girls then boys?
Secondly, I doubt that a straight guy would want to give another guy a BJ.
So the only guys that a straight guy would receive a BJ from would have to be gay.
And finally, I would say that the best to give a BJ would have to be a guy cos they know what they want to receive, so they know how to give.
Seems a siily post to me anyway, but I would like to see peoples responses.
No, whoever has most experience gives a better BJ, regardless of the sex.
PS, i think we all realised you were gay mate.
I also don't think that a man is automatically better than a woman. Every man has different preferences and sensitivities, and likes different thing. I wouldn't want some guy to give me what he likes because he would probably be focusing on the wrong areas.
The best sex (oral or otherwise) comes from a partner that you want to be with, and who wants to be with you. Most importantly a partner who takes the time to find out what you want, and is ready to give you exactly that.
The gender is totally unimportant.
Would imagine it would work woman on woman aswel but i think theres a lot more to things like that than just the physical side.
Anyone agree?
for me bj's are something intimate between two people, therefore it has to be with someone i respect and am attracted to.
STRICKTLY WOMEN ONLY
that's my opinion and i hope it's crystal!!
So you would never get a bj of a girl you meet in a club and don't know therefore have no respect for her?
I don't think a bj is that Intimate, it is when the person doing it to you is some one you love, but lots of people have sex without love (and sometimes lust) !
Yes. Two bisexual women I've been with have made this comment to me. A woman does know how it feels, and that's certainly an advantage. But it's mostly the attitude and expertise of the one performing this service, as well as the woman's emotional state at the time, that makes it good or bad.
I'm a gay male.
Thought so !
Have you ever managed to give a straight guy a BJ then, & he knew that you were gay ?
No, not yet.
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Me neither !
Good luck to you though !
X
Seem strange to me
What is it like a gay blokes mission then, Like a straight bloke having a 3sum, Gay blokes ideal thing is giving a straight guy a bj and have him know your gay???
I'm lost!
The big thing is not that the straight guy knows that you are gay, its just finding a straight guy who wouldn't mind getting a BJ from another guy.
To me it would be a big turn on giving a straight guy a BJ.
What do you think Tidycrash ?
not strictly true, Too many "what if's"
What if it was a man dressed up as a woman(Like in bangCock!!)
Or what if the man is drugged!
Or what if the man is forced into it !:eek:
But yes I agree with you that if a man willing knows another man is about to suck his dick he is gay, But what if he go's back to liking woman (If gay man do that) would that count as giving a "straight guy" a bj?
There are no 'what ifs'...Ocean said " finding a straight guy who wouldn't mind getting a BJ from another guy", No dressups, no drugs and no rapes.
Any man who wants another man to suck his dick, is totally flaming.
You are exactly right.
Thats why the thought of it is a big turn on !
A fantacy, that is probably not possible.
Yeah he did, I should read all the post really, sorry my Boo Boo!
Ocean Sailor I can’t see you finding a straight guy who will allow you to give him a bj unless there is money, drugs or BEER involved
Well that's life.
BTW, do you want me to buy you a beer ?
No I think I need to get away from this post before tongues wag
Not that there is anything wrong with Guys on Guys just ain't my cup of tea.
But I'll still have the beers thank you very much
It was just a joke !!
I'll still buy you that beer though !
eg glory hole or eyes closed - would you be able to tell the difference (assuming no stubble, associated manliness etc)
It's a mental thing I think. Could you stomach the sight of a bloke mouth wrapped round your nether regions - for most blokes no.