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loosing virginity on a one night stand

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
i lost my virginity on a one night stand
i'm trying to explain it to this girl but she is saying it's stupid
i need other people to message me saying why they lost theres on a one night
or if they knew any stats or studys about it and could send me the link

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Asking people to send you messages about when they lost their virginity is unlikely to go down well on this board.

    How other people lost theirs shouldn't affect the relationship between you and someone else. It might be that she's not keen on someone who's into one night stands.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i lost my virginity on a one night stand
    i'm trying to explain it to this girl but she is saying it's stupid
    i need other people to message me saying why they lost theres on a one night
    or if they knew any stats or studys about it and could send me the link

    She might think it's stupid, but it happened. Tell her to get over it, or just drop the subject altogether. It's in the past.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It's just one of those things that happens. Most people seem to have hated their first time anyway. This is just dwelling pointlessly over something in the past.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    stargalaxy wrote: »
    It's just one of those things that happens. Most people seem to have hated their first time anyway. This is just dwelling pointlessly over something in the past.

    Pretty much what I said. :yeees:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Advice said twice, isn't halved :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Jim V wrote: »
    Advice said twice, isn't halved :p

    Just a waste of time.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Seriously man, you having a bad day? That seems unnecessarily harsh.

    This isn't some kind of competition to see who can come up with the perfect answer to something, it's an open discussion board where anyone can suggest help for a problem or reply to a thread without somehow thinking their contribution is devalued by what's gone before.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Jim V wrote: »
    Seriously man, you having a bad day? That seems unnecessarily harsh.

    This isn't some kind of competition to see who can come up with the perfect answer to something, it's an open discussion board where anyone can suggest help for a problem or reply to a thread without somehow thinking their contribution is devalued by what's gone before.

    Hungover to hell... Actually in a cracking good mood now though :)

    Blah blah blah. Doesn't matter.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I like to see stuff added that's essentially the same, shows that more than one person thinks like that. :p

    Seriously, why she's worried is the bigger issue and blinding her with statistics won't help.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I like to see stuff added that's essentially the same, shows that more than one person thinks like that. :p

    Seriously, why she's worried is the bigger issue and blinding her with statistics won't help.

    :p to you too :D
  • SkiveSkive No discipline. No morality. No respect. New ForestPosts: 15,269 Skive's The Limit
    Who cares what she as long as you happy.
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Sex is an act...

    What meaning it has is dependent on you.

    If you were comfortable in your boundaries, then that is fine.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I lost my virginity on a one night stand... but i think that it is better.. because otherwise if i done it with someone i was going out with i might get too attached and once we split it would be even more emotional.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,324 The Mix Honorary Guru
    This is a really old thread, most people writing in it aren't around here much any more. If you want to start your own thread you might get more response.

    Welcome :wave:
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