Your partner & Porn..

Former Member

You aren't seeing my point! It's really simple, look:
Some men like porn. Some men don't like porn. Just because you have not met a man who doesn't like porn, does not mean that all men like porn. Follow?

As for girls liking makeup, I know you are only using it as an analogy, but you can't generalise that either! Not all girls like makeup, not all girls wear make up. I don't even own any make up, let alone wear any!

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I've seen where he stashes it :hyper: That's it really. I think it's his business.

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Don't look at me like that!
You are wrong Matt - you can't say that "All men like porn" because it really isn't true!

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Sorry, you still won't win even if you have a full blown 2 year old tantrum on the floor, complete with tears and screaming!

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What a confusing read that was!

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Just have sex and be done with it.

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kaffrin wrote: »

Only bothers me if he nelects me for porn. If it's an additional thing and not a replacement thing, I'm cool with it.

:yes:

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Only have a problem with it when I'm asleep in the next room and haven't been getting enough anyway! Wasn't impressed..:o

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I quite like porn myself so im quite happy that my bf has some good stuff. We watch it together and occasionally seperatly. Id probably be bothered iof he was watching it loads and wanking loads without me though, although it wouldnt be THAT big of a deal if everything else was good,

I used to hate it when my ex had it though cos he preferred it to sex and used to lie about it so i got really insecure about it and about myself.

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ok. i personally quite like porn. my ex and i used to watch it and when i got bored i read his nuts magazines. but it was never like a replacement - if he was there, we watched together, but it wasnt like a regular occurance or anything. I dont have a problem at all with guys watching porn, and i've watched it before with my current boyfriend.
Its nothing to be worried about!! its natural i think. If i watch porn on my own, my boyfriend doesnt get jealous because perhaps the guy/girl on screen is hotter than him or something. its him im interested in! not some porn star.
I wouldnt be worried.

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. One thing i do know is women usually believe their man doesn't speak vulgarly, because they don't do it in their presence

thats a very true point!

if theres a group of fellas and a nice lookin girl walks past its pretty much certain one of them is going to make some sort of comment!

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Also.. Some guys are really religious, they wont watch porn! i know a couple who dont. but i think porn is becoming more acceptable in the younger generations, and so more and more guys and girls watch it.

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Knee High Stripy Socks wrote: »

Don't look at me like that!
You are wrong Matt - you can't say that "All men like porn" because it really isn't true!

I liked porn before the hard core explosion...:yuck:
I think they have lost the plot myself...erotica is great and we could be feasting on the best and most uninhibited porn ever but instead they have been sidetrack by a tried and tested formula of frankly boring gymnastics.

Former Member

The only time I watch porn is when i'm single or if sex in a relationship is crap or infrequent. So generally a partner doesn't have to worry about porn with me.

I have been known to have sex and then shortly afterwards go and watch some porn because the sex was so dull and unsatisfying. don't think that's really a bad reflection on me though is it.... is it? :nervous:

(by the way, the dull and unsatisfying sex wasn't my fault, I had done everything I could to try and improve the situation... it's not like I just gave up and turned to porn instead)