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Your partner & Porn..

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Do you have a problem with your partner regularly accessing porn?
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Not bothered in the slightest if she does or she doesn't.

    Personally I don't get off on it, all my life I've either had a girlfriend or the classic right hand/imagination combo so it's a non-issue really.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I thought I was okay with it, one of these cool people you know? But after my reaction this evening, maybe I'm not as cool as I thought. I'm just as insecure as the next person!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't have a problem with it at all, as long as i get my share of attention :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I don't have a partner, well not just one, but if I did they'd have to not care or be turned on by my porn tastes.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Rich doesn't watch it anymore anyway, so it's not a problem. My ex before that never masturbated so had no need for porn. Before that I never really asked...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Only bothers me if he nelects me for porn. If it's an additional thing and not a replacement thing, I'm cool with it.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    kaffrin wrote: »
    Only bothers me if he nelects me for porn. If it's an additional thing and not a replacement thing, I'm cool with it.

    :yes:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I couldn't care less... as soon as she does not expect me to have a 12 inch dick like in all those porns...
    10 inches must suffice.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    StrubbleS wrote: »
    I couldn't care less... as soon as she does not expect me to have a 12 inch dick like in all those porns...
    10 inches must suffice.


    Actually I find the predictable massiveness of the men. The false tits of the woman and the insinuation that sex is only for a small group of freaks:yuck: off putting to the max.
    These days my wifes divine rump is all that appeals to me.:heart:
  • littlemissylittlemissy Posts: 9,972 Supreme Poster
    Personally, I don't like it. But then that is my huge irrational and insecure side of me showing through and I know it is rather silly. But that is just me.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hate it so much. :mad:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    kaffrin wrote: »
    Only bothers me if he nelects me for porn. If it's an additional thing and not a replacement thing, I'm cool with it.
    Ditto.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    xlittlestarx - I'm EXACTLY the same as you, glad I'm not alone ;) The issue I had with my boyfriend so all sorted now! :D
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm a porn addict, can't help it! Tough crap haha

    The missus doesn't care too much although sometimes she gets funny lol
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm single, but if I were in a relationship I'd have no problem.

    It'd depend on the type of porn though, if it were violent porn, or poo-poo porn, or animal porn I'd probably feel that their fantasies stretched beyond my boundaries. :no:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Not bothered at all :)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well, if a guy's watching porn instead of shagging his girlfriend, (and this when she's actually around) something ain't right.
  • **helen****helen** Deactivated Posts: 9,235 Supreme Poster
    I agree that what Kaff has said is spot on. You might also be interested in this article: porn and relationships.

    I think it's really common to have an immediately negative reaction to it, but it is something you can talk about and easily get over.

    The main issue for me is actually the idea that some of those women are being treated really, really badly in that trade. I probably need to do more research on it though, because I don't have my facts straight on that at all, just a worry. :chin:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    kaffrin wrote: »
    Only bothers me if he nelects me for porn. If it's an additional thing and not a replacement thing, I'm cool with it.

    :yes: Ive not really paid porn enough attention methinks. It usually just makes me laugh rather than get me hot tbh
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Not bothered at all. I watch enough of the stuff so would be hypocritical if I had a problem. If he watches it and neglects me, then I wouldn't be impressed.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well my bf doesnt like porn but i wouldnt be bothered if he did watch it and stuff
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I would find it hard to believe a guy that doesn't like porn!
    Well, everyone's different...
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you have good communication in a relationship, I think porn is a good thing. It opens up new ideas and can make sex more exciting.

    Have you ever simultaneously tried to copy the action on a porn film with your partner? A laugh when pissed or stoned. :p
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Franki wrote: »
    Well, everyone's different...
    True that.
  • littlemissylittlemissy Posts: 9,972 Supreme Poster
    I would find it hard to believe a guy that doesn't like porn!

    Why?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    That's such a huge generalisation Matt! Yes lots of blokes like porn but equally lots of men just have no interest at all - same for women. I don't think you can really speak for all men here...
  • littlemissylittlemissy Posts: 9,972 Supreme Poster
    Don't think i know any popular socially accepted people that don't watch the stuff a lot or talk vulgarly of girls.

    I know of a fair few 'socially accepted people' who don't talk vulgarly of girls.
    That's such a huge generalisation Matt! Yes lots of blokes like porn but equally lots of men just have no interest at all - same for women. I don't think you can really speak for all men here...

    My thoughts exactly.
  • littlemissylittlemissy Posts: 9,972 Supreme Poster
    Sorry i meant men.

    Oh, sorry. I'll rephrase.

    I know of a fair few 'socially accepted men' who don't talk vulgarly of girls. And would cringe at the thought and get embarrassed around those who do :thumb:

    Oh, and these are men who don't not do it around me because I'm female. They don't do it because it is crude.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    My thoughts exactly.
    :crazyeyes
    :lol:

    Matt you might not know any men who don't like porn because the type of men you know are the type who are always going to be interested in porn? You don't know every man and every man's tastes so I'm sorry but you can't generalise like that!
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