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At least that's what I observe every outing.
don't agree with the aryan thing though.
haha! well said.
basically, in order to be attractive you should just dress well, take care of yourself and be a generally nice guy. the sixpack thing? utter bull. a friend of mine is going out with a pretty big guy and she loves him so, so much. most girls like a guy who they can cuddle, not some macho bloke with action man attributes. my guy's pretty skinny with dark blue, almost black hair, and i actually fancy him like crazy: no one sticks to their appearance ideals in the end, when the guy's lovely. (:
Note: Half sarcastic, half serious in this post.
Hello mate,
I haven't read all the other posts so i could be repeating this - What your mate is really trying to say, though I doubt he actually thinks about it this way - is that having a higher social status is attractive. Relates to the alpha (dominant) male idea, which is also true in the animal kingdom. Think about your friends.....which ones do you look up to (i.e. those which you aspire to be more like) and the ones who look up to you (those who make you feel more powerful simply because you know you're the dominant one). The male is naturally the dominant gender so having higher status is seen as attractive. Its a process hardwired into women by evolution, and probably not the sort of thing they consciouslythink about when choosing a bf. But believe me, its definitely important if you want her to be interested in you. Material posessions such as having nice clothes, a nice car, money, power, fame etc etc are all ways of elevating status. So unless you have alot of money or you're famous, you'd better become good at adopting alpha male traits (or at the very least, start thinking about status in social groups).
There shouldn't be "better than thou" in a relationship. Love is about equality.
If you were in walking down the street and you see a hot guy/girl, which are they most likely to be? The fat hairy munter or the brangelina lookalike?
For a shag or relationship, as I've said it isn't about being better, it's about respect.
The boy sounds like a cock (his mate, not the poster) and sexist.
Also, if they were better than me in every way it would just make me feel rubish & think there more likely to cheat
Just be yourself, dont change just for a girl, just make sure you are happy as a person
its like how some girls think they have to be thin for a guy to like them when, many guys actually prefer women with a bit more fat who isnt just bone, it all depends on the girl you like view, not all are the same
also, they should like you for you not just your apperance
No offense or not meant in a mean way but you sound bitter.
There might be some tinkering that needs to be done with genes that would give me the Aryan edge. You know, straight blonde hair, blue eyes that pierce the soul, strong, square, authoritarian jaw for a man who looks like he can get things done. Those small details.
But until then, it's good old hard work.