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Haven't needed to for years though...
I know. I can just about see it as a regrettable act in the heat of the moment but like you said. The OP and the parents need to apoligise to eachother.
On the note of your mum etc, sure it was possibly wrong, but to be fair - I don't know how I would react under those circumstances. That's a LOT for a parent to hear/see and so I am with MoK and his opinions here.
Apologise, from the off, and perhaps they will too.
I sometimes find it hard to have sympathy with people who upset their family (not saiyng you did though) and throw everything back in their faces and the first time that someone snaps they run around the streets telling everyone they're a victim.
Just to reiterate I'm not saying this isthe OP I have bad experience of family woes from when I was a bit younger and it rears its ugly head from time to time.
I think your right about holding my tongue. I need to sort it out because its not on really. Im not at all like it when Im sober only occasionally when Im really drunk.
My mum text me last night any way because we are all going out for dinner tonight and she told me the plans. I text her back but said 'sorry' and then she said 'hm okay but i dont want any more calls from the police station'.
Dad is fine now as well but thinks I need to channel my angry energy into something positive or something like that.
Na I haven't said anything about the slapping/ squeezing thing to anyone but on here and my best mate.
I know what you mean though people who milk things are annoying and I agree I probably deserved it. If it was my sister she probably would have milked it but I know Im the one in the wrong so.
Ah - it sounds like it's a start on mending things
You need to clean up your act for you own sake.
Anti-social behaviour is not "cool". Maybe it will hard, maybe you will lose your friends (but hopefully make better ones) but really it is something you need to work on.
Hopefully this will act as a warning. Perhaps the police will let you off with a warning or a caution this time. If they took your details then your name may be on their records for a while just in case there is another incident in which case they may decide to act more harshly.