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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
I just need to know:what should happen when my penis erects, and how should it look? oh, and can u help, i keep wanting to as a 16 yr old mate for sex(im 12).is that normal?
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Lol what the fuck? :confused:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    :lol:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    wow.really useful.laugh at me.that helps my self esteem
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well your post doesn't make sense.

    You're 12 years old and you haven't had an erection yet? I find that quite strange.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Okay...is it normal that you want to have sex? Yes. Should you ask your 16 year old mate. No.

    1. I don't know any 16 year old who would wanna have sex with a 12 year old

    2. If they did they could get in serious trouble and be put on the sex offenders list

    A bloke can answer the penis question, I don't think I'm in any position to comment on what is normal. As far as I can see there is all different shapes and sizes
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    did you mean ask a sixteen year old mate for sex?

    if so i wouldnt reccomend it at twelve. it's normal to have these feelings because of your hormones and you body is changing.

    as for erect penis. it just goes hard. maybe a bloke is better at answering this question.
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    JsTJsT Posts: 18,268 Skive's The Limit
    Your penis should like like a larger version of it smaller really. As for having sex, I'd say 12 was too young. Many people start to have feelings this early but its not really a good idea to have sex yet.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yes,ive had a f***in erection,but i see pics of erections and mine look nothing like them.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    fish94 wrote: »
    yes,ive had a f***in erection,but i see pics of erections and mine look nothing like them.

    Not all penis' are the same length or girth.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    soz for the swearing, and ignore the bit about the 16 yr old, i meant it a different way
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    JsTJsT Posts: 18,268 Skive's The Limit
    fish94 wrote: »
    yes,ive had a f***in erection,but i see pics of erections and mine look nothing like them.

    Not all erections look the same, especially between circumsised and uncircumsised penises. You will probably be OK.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    no, not the girth and stuff, just the skin around the penis. is that meant to come back, as mine doesnt
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    fish94 wrote: »
    no, not the girth and stuff, just the skin around the penis. is that meant to come back, as mine doesnt

    Some people have a problem with their foreskin and not being able to pull it back. Go to a doctor and see what he says.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    thanks, youve helped a lot :) sorry for bothering ya
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Your foreskin should come back. So you should go and see your doctor. I know it's tough and you think it will be embarrassing but i did it and it's fine. Doctors are professionals and they are there to help. They see things like it all the time!
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    JsTJsT Posts: 18,268 Skive's The Limit
    Sometimes it can take time for it to come back after you start getting erections. But it will probably happen eventually. If you are concerned you can always see your doctor.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    this is a better question:how far should it come back, cos it does come back a bit, but then for some reason i worry and stop it coming back
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    fish94 wrote: »
    no, not the girth and stuff, just the skin around the penis. is that meant to come back, as mine doesnt
    You're 12 at the moment, so I wouldn't panic about this yet. I had foreskin trouble for years, and when I discussed this with my doctor, he informed me that it's perfectly normal for guys to have trouble with their foreskins at that age. According to him, it normally corrects itself over the following couple of years. It's when you're 16 and it doesn't go back at all that you should start really worrying.
    fish94 wrote: »
    this is a better question:how far should it come back, cos it does come back a bit, but then for some reason i worry and stop it coming back
    It's meant to roll back all the way to the end of your penis. However, as I said before, don't panic about it just yet.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    oh god i must seem so strange
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Your foreskin should be able to come back whilst it is errect if you can't pull it back then go and see ya doc, but it should also be able to cover the penis in an errect state...correct me if I'm wrong there blokes...all the ones I've seen can anyway.

    ETA. You should be able to get it back so that you can see the glands around the head of the penis.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    fish94 wrote: »
    this is a better question:how far should it come back, cos it does come back a bit, but then for some reason i worry and stop it coming back

    If you look beneath your bellend you'll see a stringy sort of thing that attaches the skin to the bellend, it'll come back past your bellend for a bit but stop cos of this stringy thing. Eugh that made me cringe typing that.
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    JsTJsT Posts: 18,268 Skive's The Limit
    Kazbo wrote: »
    Your foreskin should be able to come back whilst it is errect if you can't pull it back then go and see ya doc, but it should also be able to cover the penis in an errect state...correct me if I'm wrong there blokes...all the ones I've seen can anyway.

    ETA. You should be able to get it back so that you can see the glands around the head of the penis.

    Can tell your a lady of experience :p heh. It should definately expose the head fully.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    yah but my skin seems to only pull back a small amount
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    it only goes back far enough for me to see the tip of my bellend
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    JsTJsT Posts: 18,268 Skive's The Limit
    As I said above with time it can and probably will loosen and be able to be pulled back further so more of the head is exposed. If you are really worried you need to seek medical advice to make sure all is OK.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    JsT wrote: »
    Can tell your a lady of experience :p heh. It should definately expose the head fully.

    Whatever gives you that impression?!? :angel:
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    fish94

    Does this guys username make anyone 'who feels young', 'feel old'?

    1994!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    fish94 wrote: »
    yah but my skin seems to only pull back a small amount

    You have to Stretch it! It will loosen up eventually. A good idea is to pull the skin down when its not erect, leave it down, go about your day, when you got bed, pull it up. When you wake up the next morning do the same again. Helps to stretch in the shower also.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    MancDan wrote: »
    Does this guys username make anyone 'who feels young', 'feel old'?

    1994!

    yess goddd
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    MancDan wrote: »
    Does this guys username make anyone 'who feels young', 'feel old'?

    1994!

    :yes: gutted
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